How old are you when you have a baby?

baby - babies are very lovely
China
April 28, 2009 12:55am CST
As the development of society, people's living rate is quicken and morden people are suffering more and more pressure from work and life. Therefore, many adults choose to have a baby later, maybe in their late 20s, or even 30s. How about u, friends? How old are you when you became to be father or mother?
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@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
28 Apr 09
for some reasons,i went to school very late.so when i complished my education i was already twenty-six.i did't worry about my job compared to my marriage.even then,i had no boyfriend,so,during my first year of my job,i looked for a boy friend and made mind to marry him.one year later,we married,and i was twenty-seven when i have my first baby.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
28 Apr 09
Actually I delivered my first child when I was 32 years old. It was a normal delivery and fortunatley my pregnancy went of very well inspite of my age. There were no complications and no retching feelings etc. However, I was very tired by the time the doctor came for the delivery as I was in pain all night and not really in a position to push, so had to have him pulled out by tongs. I think we need to be a little younger to bear the pain comfortably. I then never had another child. Guess its always better to have a baby in your 20s than in 30s.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
loving - is so much fun
i really planned to get married after college so that i will pursue my higher learning after giving birth. thanks GOD my plans are all right. i was 23 when i gave birth to my first kid.it was really a very fulfilling moment. i felt like my life was so complete, with my dearest husband beside me.
• United States
28 Apr 09
I was 2 months and 6 days away from being 19. My secon came at the age of 24. I never wanted any kids actually but maybe I might have changed my mind when I got older.. thats why I really should have waited to have children.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
28 Apr 09
My first baby was to 20, i don t say that was a mistake, now is ok, but if i can give an advice i will say that ideal age to have a baby is 27,30 years, peoples are more mature, they have time, woman and man to know each other better, and why not have time to built a good couple. So, as i say was to early for me, but i can t turn time back, i am happy now, because i am a young mother, but if i can choice right age to have first baby, can be later, when both are more mature.
• United States
28 Apr 09
considering girls have babies so early now a days lol i guess i was a slow starter i did not have my first baby until i was 21 and my son is now 14. I will be 36 in june. But still when i had him it was hard i was a single mom pretty much and i had to work and come home and take care of him so it was hard. I might be better to wait until you have yourself financially ready but then you are never reallyready with money unless you are so rich rich lol which is not the way for normal people