me-- girl

@jimmy87 (475)
India
April 28, 2009 7:25am CST
Hey,what should I do?I am left with this huge dillema of choosing between my best friend and the girl whom I loved since childhood. Me and my best friend love the same girl.So,I could not decide between the two as both are precious to me..
4 responses
@med889 (5958)
28 Apr 09
Hello jimmy87, well your case is really a bit tough. How come you have allowed such a situation tp crop up? Anyways, now you got to analyse the problem then act accordingly. See what both of you have done to you and then decide. But as you said both are dear to you then I just wish you don't have to choose.
@jimmy87 (475)
• India
28 Apr 09
guess what!!! I have asked the girl and she said she loves my best friend. I am a bit dissapointed but I feel good for them.. By the way,thanks for responding....
@med889 (5958)
29 Apr 09
I am happy as you ar not so affected to the decision of the girl and you have simply respected her decision. Life goes on Jimmy.
• United States
28 Apr 09
I think you should ask both of them as they both are dear to you. As you said this girl likes your best friend But your friend also agree with it & it should not be form one side(on girl's side)One of my friend was experienced the same dillema, but he choose not to decided anything without their(girl & his friend) opinion & whatever it may come, he was ready to accept. He asked the girl & she said she like his friend but she was good with him (my friend) too. Then he asked his friend about it without letting him know that he loves that girl too. & luckily he'd no such feeling for her. The girl was very upset with decision but now very happy with my friend. :) Hope something will work out for you too
• China
28 Apr 09
Hey,man,u should't be confused and I think u should ask the girl's oppinion.If she decide to choose u,then u may talk with your friend calmly.If he is your real good friend he should understand and respect the girl's decision.Remember love can not share and she is not your gift.
@orang13 (723)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
well, at this moment you should ask your friend and you really have to talk sincerely,. Tell him that you have the same girl in your hearts, then you ask if you can have her but if he insist and get mad. ill tell you, choose your bestfriend, for sure you'll definitely gonna find another person thats right for you but a best friend? it is really hard to get one.