who do you do when your family doesnt approve of.............

United States
April 29, 2009 10:25am CST
WEll, here goes, at the risk of many negative thoughts. For many years i have always dated white men, beening raised up with a granny that is very predijuce, and then with a mother who lived in an all white town. After many years i finally dcided to live my life my way and date outside my race, upon this i have been dishowned by my granny, ctitized by my brother and mother. both of whom date outside thier race. Im just so confused and felt like and outsider from my family. anyone else been in this situation? how do you cope, with no longer having your family?
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• Philippines
29 Apr 09
I checked your Profile, and I noticed that you lived in the United States. I think you should follow what it's said in your heart and mind and not what other people, even family should respect what you want. is it what your country strongly supports of..freedom.just live your life, these people don't control your lives and your Granny will die soon with her stupid principle about just white.
• United States
29 Apr 09
Yes i feel the same, but i dont understand how my mom can marry a guy from sctland in which she met online, and my brother dates asian women and that o, but when i date a african american it is a whole diffrent story.
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• Philippines
29 Apr 09
I guess they're not ready to accept or have a colored people into your family. your brother must be dating a white Asian something like that.