I found a guy I really click with - he happens to have a girlfriend

@calvin222 (1606)
India
November 11, 2006 10:41am CST
WHAT SHOULD I DO?? Since the first day we met he has been upfront about his relationship. He could have easily not said anything about it -since it is a long distance relationship. He isn't about to break up with her just because he found someone he may be more compatiable with. He has said time and again that he doesn't think things between them are going to work out. Should I stick around or just chalk it up to another loss?
2 responses
@Beagle (42)
• United States
11 Nov 06
Don't waste your time. If you're just sitting around waiting for him to break up with his girlfriend it's going to make him think you don't respect yourself and then he's not going to respect you. Stay friends with the guy by all means but date other people. If later down the line the timing is right you guys'll get together. If not.....who cares, b/c you'll probably have found someone better anyway!
• Singapore
11 Nov 06
be careful - be careful
if i'm in your shoe, i will choose to remain friend with this guy! It's so contradicting, he's not going to break up with her cos he found someone more compatible YET he dont think things are going to work out between them? wow! this guy dont even know what he wants. i will run so fast before he can say 'hello'!