Daydreamer2: What can you do to make the person you like to fall for you?

Philippines
May 1, 2009 1:09am CST
i always dreamt of someone that i like the most but how can i make him fall for me and like me? can you help me with this cause i'm finding it hard to do this things. :)
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
4 May 09
You can't make someone fall in love with you. They either find you attractive and fall in love on their own or they don't. It's as simple as that. They're either in love with you or they're not. I wouldn't even consider doing something that's not in my taste to satisfy him because that's not giving him a piece of you and who you really are. Be yourself and you'll find the right man when the time is right. Worry about your studies is much more important right now.
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• Philippines
5 May 09
you're right thats just a topic that is my issue before :)
• India
1 May 09
you love to that girl that was your friend and you want to do that she will loves you, so that problem solution is that you will live very much with him .help him .give him felling to that you will her best and true friend know his happyness in which thing that you do when you are both togeather that time you tell him or that you love him . and live it alone for some time or some day .and what felling you realize that was same felling he realize.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
2 May 09
Hey Daydreamer! Sometimes you just have to be a bit patient! You can't always be in a rush when you are interested in someone! Sometimes it just takes time to let things happen and for someones feelings to grow. And sometimes you just can't make someones feelings grow at all. You can't always make someone that you like fall for you! Things have to happen naturally. If you force something to happen then it won't work in the end! Let things happen naturally and if they don't then maybe they just weren't meant to be!
@berrys (864)
• Singapore
1 May 09
for me i kind of work the reverse psychology part. even though i don't say hi to whoever i like directly, i always use body language. when ever i pass them i would laugh out loud with my friends, if they look at me, i wont look at that I'll do something sexy but i know their looking at me because im using my peripherals, i would be all happy and flirtatious whenever they're around and never directly give them the pleasure of talking to me. if they say something like "hey there, im mike" I'll probably say " hey mike, im the girl who you think about before you sleep", flash a smile, and walk away. i like playing hard to get to make sure that the guy actually wants me. i play this game with them and toy on their feelings until they cant take it anymore than i start becoming nicer, the nicer i become the more they want to know about me, the physical attraction is over and its time to emotionally get them. let them talk about them selves never reveal too much about yourself. think of it like a mystery until one day he captures your heart and you want him badly make sure he tells you first. i never confess to a love first. but you can if you want. good luck and god bless. cheers love.
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@namemo25 (10)
• Philippines
1 May 09
That's hard. Hmm.. okay, if the person is not into you in the first place, its hard. You can be close to him, be a best friend to him, but that doesn't guarantee that he'll fall for you, it might, however, make you fall for him even more. To answer your question, just be the best version of yourself, not only for him but for you as well. Who knows, maybe he'll finally see how good a person you are and might end up falling for you.. Good luck.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
5 May 09
my answer is; nothing. Nothing can make somebody fall in love with you. If he or she will love you will love you not because you try to make something, he will just love you, . Love exist or not. Is for nothing if somebody tru to be more atractive, this don t help. To be fall mean a kind of chemistry, a atraction who you can t stop. so, you must just to be as you are, nothing more.