online dating

@berrys (865)
Singapore
May 1, 2009 3:03am CST
would you ever try online dating? do you think its wrong? do you think people are desperate if they do it?
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6 responses
• India
1 May 09
i have been there n done that.....twice actually.....n both d tyms it didnt work more than a few weeks.... i dont thin ppl it who go for it r desperate...its just that except in rare case i really dont think there is a real future to it....esp more so if ull come fromt wo different countries.....
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@berrys (865)
• Singapore
1 May 09
true. thanks for your input.
@kaleem_jr (106)
• Pakistan
1 May 09
I have been using net for more than 5 years. I have been chating with girls. I had continuous contact with them on telephone as well. but I don't know why I think it is not good to date online.
@berrys (865)
• Singapore
1 May 09
cause it can be dangerous?
• Finland
1 May 09
Hi berrys, yes i've tried online dating. Well i don't think it's wrong since i usually plan on meeting them someday in the future. Me and my current boyfriend for example began with online dating and now we are living together and have been dating for 2 years! :) People who date online aren't desperate, there's nothing wrong with falling in love with someone online. But of course you should always consider the possibilities of meeting them in real life someday.
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@berrys (865)
• Singapore
1 May 09
wow! that's amazing and im very happy for you. of course there are lots of risks in online dating with the world being filled with all sorts of people nowadays you never know whether the guy you're meeting is for real or not. god bless you and your family. cheers love.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
1 May 09
Hi berrys, Nope I never tried online dating, chatting yes. Well we all have different opinion regarding this matter. But I don't see anything wrong about it. Unless you think it on the negative way. Not really I find it a desperate moves. No man is an island. All of us deserves to be happy if they think they will be happy nothing is wrong. Have a nice day to you!
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@berrys (865)
• Singapore
1 May 09
i know i think its desperate too.
• United States
2 May 09
Hello, I don't think that online dating is wrong or that is makes a person desperate. Some people have trouble in their own problems in their lives that makes them very fearful of dating outside of the internet. While using the computer to date whoever they want they feel more secure and can get very attatched. I have done online dating before and I do not regret it. I think it helps you become more social actually. Internet socializing brings out the side of you that you wish you would be acting outside of the internet or the side that you can not show to others because you are unsure of how they will perceive you. I did online dating and I do not regret it at all. I loved every part of my relationship even though it was long distance.
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@Porcospino (18396)
• Denmark
4 May 09
I have tried online dating a couple of times and I definately don't regret it, because I found my fiance that way. We were both members of the same site and we exchanged emails for a while. On day we decided to meet in real life and our meeting went really well. We become a couple and later we became engaged. Now we are living together and in a few weeks we are getting married I met a few other guys online before I found my fiance, and those meetings weren't very succesful, but I am happy that I didn't give up because then I wouldn't have met my fiance.
@berrys (865)
• Singapore
4 May 09
aw your story's like a fairy tale. GOOD FOR YOU!