what are the ways?

Indonesia
May 2, 2009 3:35am CST
Hi, guys. in a relationship we always see BF cheating on his GF and GF cheating on her BF, husband to his wife and wife like that too even they have long married already. so many cases like that. but some have successful relationship. they can maintain their relationship. what make their relationship can everlasting? beside of trust each other because when wife trusts her husband but still have cases that husband cheated his wife. it's really make me confuse. thank you for your comment. Happy mylotting and have a nice day?
5 responses
@yspring (272)
• China
2 May 09
trust must be the most important,,but in the real life ,there are a lot of white lies ,,sometimes they can make the relationship more closed, everyone should unconditional love your spouse,,despite of a lot of cheat , we should do thing comply with our soul!!enjoy the day@
• Indonesia
12 May 09
hi. yeah that's a really a complicated thing. thank for your comment here. have a nice day :)
@ronslove (481)
• Philippines
2 May 09
I believe lasting relationship caters first of all, unconditional love to your partner. then both must have respect, understanding, open communication in every problem that may come their way. Then both also must be true to theirselves, so as not to hide anything. If you have a manner that is unhealthy, then tell and show this to your partner, so that he may not develop any disgust feeling later. Any way, if he really loves you, he will accept you, and understand you for who you are. And if you also ,really love the guy, then find or make a better way to lessen or sorten your rough traits. Happy mylotting and have a nice day too!
• Indonesia
12 May 09
Hi, thank for you comment here. have a nice day
@cainam (493)
• Philippines
8 May 09
just trust your partner. the more you suspects him the more possible he'll cheat you.
@sanuanu (11238)
• India
3 May 09
The first thing is trust. This is the most essential aspect of love or relationship. The second thing is their physical relationship with each other. If a husband or a wife isn't getting their body needs then they will automatically get attracted towards third person in their relationship. Most of the time this is the case, so even if I will have trust in my wife, if she will not get pleasure in bed, it would be difficult for her to be lyal to me!
@savypat (20246)
• United States
2 May 09
It's a matter of giving your word in the marriage contract. Each person needs to honor the agreement they signed. If they can't then they need to break it, divorce before they get involved with others. It's a matter of your word being your bond. That is how I look at it. I have 50+ yrs of marriage.