Liars, I hate them !!!!!

India
May 2, 2009 6:39am CST
Well i have a friend who always stays in a make believe world......he thinks that he has everything which is actually not......he always soars for the skies......it is really irritating when people say that they did this,they did that.....and in reality they did nothing.....just to get some popularity people say a lot of things which is not even close to what they are saying......and what I hate is people start believing in them and they get all the attention that they are looking for...... it really gets on my nerves.....some people are just genius when it comes to lying.... I cant stand such people and I don't really know if it would be a good idea to bust their so called make believe world or to just stay away from them.......
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11 responses
@Tcboss (69)
• Netherlands
2 May 09
If people lie a lot, one day other people will notice it, and the liars will have nothing left. So just ignore them when they are lying, and they will notice at least you know they lie. I think that that's the best thing to do...
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@Deveka (11)
• Australia
3 May 09
Yea same here i have a couple of friends that do that stuff just to get popularity. I get really mad but in the end they really have nothing to lie about!!!
• India
3 May 09
oh yes i can certainly try this out.....but you know he is such a big liar that he will just get all the attention that he is looking for no matter what....he is too smart with it.........
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• Indonesia
3 May 09
liar never last longer, someday the thruth will revealed..and she/he will be shame while his/her liar revealed. So my advice stop to be a liar!!!!
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@Ozarkgirl (774)
• United States
2 May 09
Actucally if you have the ability to stay around them and either call them on their lies or challenge them to prove their lies are true, an example would be if they boast that they are an expert sailor then if you know anything about sailing and boating, or get all the books you can read up on it and then make them prove they know what they are talking about by asking questions or agreeing with them and say something about sailing in a positive tone that is a lie and see if he agrees with you then you bust him on it. Eventually he will stop lieing to you or stop being around you. My husband is a Psychologist and he says this is the only way to stop a liar or make them go away!!
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• India
3 May 09
I love your tip and I think I would try this out on most people. It would make me learn new things and I would get rid of some of the unwanted characters from my life. It's really a great tip and I would surely make use of it. bourne
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• India
3 May 09
Hey never thought about this idea.......i will certainly try this out and i think it should definitely work.....because you are certainly putting that liar in an uncomfortable situation which he would not like.....and i hope he will flee without me telling him anything.....thanks again !!!!
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@benhilo (871)
• Tripoli, Libya
2 May 09
First of all, why is this person your friend? If it is getting on your nerves, cut them off.
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• India
3 May 09
Well its not that easy.......he has been my friend since 2 long years and i have started noticing his traits lately......so it does take time to cut them off.....he is good in other ways, but only his lies just gets me on my nerves...... Thanks for responding !!!!
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
2 May 09
Hi, these sort of 'living in the make believe world' people are at every corner of the town/city. These people are inwardly too conscious that they are not up to the level with the people they usually deal with, hence they create some false notion about themselves which are all pile of lies and they hold a view that they are not being judged but that is their mal observation for people know who is swimming at what level. If you are at all vexed with such soul just ignore and go ahead with your good task.
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• India
3 May 09
Oh yes that is so true......these people certainly know from within that they are nothing and hence try to swim at the surface as much as they could......and i feel that when time will come to prove themselves they will prove their worth......thanks a lot for that advice..... have a nice day !!!!
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@Jenniferp (210)
• United States
2 May 09
Now now, no need to hate :) Why do you hang out with him?? I had this girl that was hanging around with last year. She was ok, at first. She started this topping me thing. Everything that I had, she had too, but better. I had a freezer, she saw it, bought one within a week. It was this weird thing. Some were flat out lies, some was a strange and sad desire to be "better than me". I couldn't stand it, I started being happier to see her go than come over. I just told her, she had to know what her issue was. She didn't really have any other friends. It was sad, she needed to know so that she could work on it. Maybe I was a true friend at that moment, but could not stay for the ride with her! lol
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• India
3 May 09
I can understand what you might have went through......there are these people who just love to do as you do....maybe because people appreciate your work and your attitude......and they feel if they do same things like you no matter how they do it, even they would get noticed......but hardly it does......thanks for sharing this with us...... Have a nice day !!!!!
@Glow1971 (354)
• Spain
3 May 09
Oh god I know what u mean!! I associate with one or 2 of those only because i have to but I believe those type of people are only looking for attention. I ignore most of the time and it actually works... :)
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
2 May 09
I don't much care for liars myself as the more I hear my ex husband lied to me for our entire relationship and has broke my heart in so many ways!
• India
3 May 09
well that is certainly sad to hear what happened with you.......I know liars can actually spoil your day and your mood as well...... Have a nice day !!!!
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
2 May 09
I'm sure nobody likes liar, I have a friend, he is a liar, always cannot meet his promise, my faith to him is fading away... hard to trust somebody when they break the credibility in your heart.
• Malaysia
3 May 09
Well this tyoe of people are living in their own world of imagination. They are poeple who are under control. I had a friend like this before this, I tolerated him for time being but then just ignored him after certain time. Thanusha
• United States
3 May 09
Personally I think it is rather sad that this person has so little that he has to lie to make himself feel better. I see by your ID that you are a Christian. That doesn't mean you have to force yourself to be around him, but you should be praying for him and for yourself as you seem to be unable to love him despite his warts.
@samdeb (82)
• Muzaffarpur, India
3 May 09
God is omnipotent,omniluscentand omnipresent and he has made every body with a peculiar characterstics and behaviour. yo may not everybody as you like so we have to manage because we have to live under tha same sky liars are like hanging fruit they are hanging in the sky but they think that they are in the sky they never thinks that they are hanging in the sky and can fall naytime. so they behave proudly. and they might gaters some attention to them but it is just for a while the real remains always real no body can change. so weshould never get angry on them we should evn laught because hanging in the sky they have forgotten the pain of falling from the sky.we should just do not mark theur presence because it is not real so never get angry on this things keep yourself in the faith nd just chill out.because some poet has sad that"ART IS LONG AND TIME IS FLEETING" so try to perfom your art .and never think about any achievement of the liars because it us only for a glimpse .