Do you ever have a someone whom you called "BESTFRIENDS OF YOURS"?

Saudi Arabia
May 2, 2009 3:57pm CST
My sister is always telling me that if you seek true friendship,its like a road of danger because she experienced this a long time ago,she have a friend or i think was her bestfriend, they treat each other as sibling,they love each other,they share each other secrets and they truly trust each other or the one we called TRUE FRIENDSHIP. Then there was time,they fall in love in one man,but this man likes my sister and I'm the witness!:) Then the bestfriend of my sister got jealous, so she lead my sister to the road of danger,because my sister always ask her friend advices. . .so my sister fell into her friend's trap. . .And i will not tell what really happens but that's very bad,and i thought that they areb very good friends and she's right true friendship is hard to find. . .
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
2 May 09
I have had a couple of what I called best friends through my life and I thought exactly like your sister they were like sisters to me then again like your sister they did things that I think friends don't do to each other so these days i prefer to just have a lot of friends rather than best friends, because of what has been don'e to me in the past by people I trusted 100% I don't trust completely anymore, no one, I think human nature has failings that there can not be 100% trust in anyone. Sad but true...
• Saudi Arabia
2 May 09
Yup,well Ms. lilaclady your right!it is best for us to have a lot of friends than to have a bestfriends,because in this earthly things its hard to trust anymore because of what we called evil act like greediness,jealousy that sometimes hurt our feelings, . . i know its sad to face the reality about what going on now , . .but the only best friend we have now is our family right?hmmm...hahahah...i think the animals are better to be our bestfriend specially dogs than people right?hahaha!!!well nice respond! i love it :))
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
2 May 09
Oh I forgot about our animals friends, now they can be trusted, they have more loyalty than any humans, I love and trust my cat one thousand percent.....
• Saudi Arabia
3 May 09
Im jealous because you have a pet. . i want too! :)) well i hope i have a one but not cat im afraid of cat hahahha i want a hamster :))and if that happens ill guarantee it i will give my trust 1 million% haahahha:)) GODBLESS
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@Archie0 (5636)
3 May 09
Well no i dont have it hurts alot but its ok with me i m used to stay alone now. but there are 2 friends of mine they are my net friends they are with me from last 4 years and i lov them a lot, we havent met ever but we are very loyal to each other and that is the reason we cant stay frm net, as soon as bck frm school or college we frst meet here, we share each and everything with each other may it be anything b ut we are the best i think.
@jeansile (15)
• Philippines
3 May 09
Sadly, though I would love to have someone whom I can openly call a BFF (Best Friend Forever), I can't. I have a few close friends, but I'm not certain about this bestfriend thing, even at 19. Not that I'm an unfriendly person, but I guess I'm just the quiet type of person who likes keeping a lot to herself.I expect it to happen naturally, mutually, it just doesn't yet. Some consider me their bestfriends, but I don't know who's the real one, as in that one Best Friend for life!
@uicbear (1900)
• United States
3 May 09
I think any relationship that you get involved with where you truly let the other person close to you, tell them your feelings about things, and believe they have the same feelings of closeness towards you, can give you the greatest comfort and joy. But because you let these people in so close, you also expect more from them, and when they do something that wounds you, it hurts all the more, and many times feels unforgivable.
@mnk202 (338)
• United States
3 May 09
Best friends or true friendship can be extremly hard to find. There was a few times in my life that I thought I had honest good trustworthy friends and that we would never have an issue. Then later on down the road if I found a guy I wanted and all of a sudden they were telling me he is useless and not worth it and I can do better even though I thought he was cool and they were trying to get me with there friends. Then I found out that they were so unhappy with life that they had also wanted me to be to and that wasnt fair because I did trust in some friends for help and guidance or just opinion and I may or may not have lost something very good, now I am very careful on who to trust because of that because I know I am a good friend to others and I need the same respect back.