do you talk about money with your love?

@cindyhxf (1447)
China
May 2, 2009 7:16pm CST
hi friends,as we know money is sensitive in our life.money always cause some problems too.such as who pay the bill or do you feel your lover care money more than you? any maybe some opinion about money is different.did you ever think of money in your relation? thanks for sharing here.my lotters.
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@aweins (4203)
• India
3 May 09
hi cindyhxf, my dear fiend, me and my hubby discuss everything with each other and when ever we buy anything , its always a mutual dicision. wego for shopping together and our money is also in one pool. we have a joint account and our life is vry transparent. we dont hide anything from each other. husband wife relationship, i think should always be very transparent. most of the payments are done by my fathre in law and he is the whole incharge of our house . but if there is something between me and my hubby then its all tranparent. known by both of us, if bought then before buying discussed and agreed by both of us. othr ethings and bill payments and all in seen by my father in law.
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@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
4 May 09
Hi friend,thank you so much for sharing ,i like your point much.
@aweins (4203)
• India
4 May 09
thanks cindy for selecting my response as the best.
@assunta (25)
• Philippines
4 May 09
yes, there should be an exchange of communication when it comes to money matters even when you're still on the boyfriend/girlfriend stage because sooner or later you will have to deal with it all the time once you decided to tie the knot. When you are in a relationship, you should be comfortable discussing all issues including finances; else, this will eventually result to misunderstandings. I agree with the other myLotter, if you can't discuss this with your partner then you might as well find someone who's more openminded on this issue.
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• United States
3 May 09
My husband and I discuss everything always. We have one account where all money goes and we pay the bills together- its never who pays this or that- that type of relationship is headed for breakdown. We you are married, you become one and that includes finances. If you are ever with someone that you can't discuss money with (or anything for that matter) you may want to consider looking for someone else. Happy mylotting!
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
3 May 09
yes ,i agree with you.if someone who can't discuss money ,it is better to find someone else.thanks for response
@hanah87 (1846)
• Malaysia
4 May 09
Yes,I like to talk about money with my love....
@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
4 May 09
Of course I do.If you're married,you should have to talk about the money with your husband or wife.because there too much things contacted with money.It's impossible to keep the money away from your life.money is a really important part of our daily life.
@megh4u (372)
• Alpharetta, Georgia
3 May 09
I don't know about other but according to me and my friends they care about our friendship since I don't have any girlfriend so I don't talk about that but as a friends we spend money without caring it, all we care about our friendship, we have a group of around 9 persons and we all are same we don't care about anything. according to me money is nothing but the most important thing is the relation between the persons.money only fill the relation with tension and queral that's all.
• United States
3 May 09
The only time my girlfriend and I talk about money, is when we come into alot of it.