How do you deal with negative people

May 4, 2009 9:27pm CST
I am the type of person that likes to laugh and have fun. It doesn't matter if I am at work or not I like to enjoy myself and I don't mind having people laugh at something I have done as long as its with me not at me. But as always there is a negative person around and sometimes even when I try to ignor them they overwhelm what is happening. How do you handle that??
7 responses
@AB_Singh (132)
• Nepal
28 May 09
ha ha ha. Negative peoples are always beloved to me. I like them a lot.If somebody has negative remarks at you, you can simply refer them to me. I know better how to handle them, coz it's game for me. I also laugh and enjoy tackling with such peoples. I have many experiences about them. Sometimes I may be failure but they are always beloved to me. So, feel easy to refer them towards me. I am here with you to deal with them who are against you and your ideas, views, opinios and who remarks you with negative references. AB_Singh
@wgh423 (65)
• China
6 May 09
Since u r optimistic,i think the negative person cann't affect ur mood,Or maybe u can encourage them to be active. I believe that pessimism is inborn,It's hard to change.
@umamahe (99)
• India
5 May 09
I don't ignore anyone simply because they overwhelm me..I stay cool and i know my own ways to deal them. You just enjoy your life. Do whatever you feel is right. Don't allow others to creep into your personal life..Make others feel happy. Keep the people around you happy always. That's a blessing from god.
• Indonesia
5 May 09
I ignore them. Because I'm also like you; I like to laugh and have fun as well. So it is so nerve wracking when these people talking and ruining your day. And it is also a heart breaking if the negative person is one of your friend.
• Philippines
5 May 09
Dealing with negative people takes time. It seems so hard to understand them sometimes but moving on to certain situation that I tried to come up sharing to them whats better idea rather than thinking negatively without any effort. I really don't care what they might think of me, at least I know I am pushing myself to help them out from negative shell. If they don't understand nor back figh at me I rather go away from them and avoid things that will complicate us.
• United States
5 May 09
I avoid negative people as much as I can because when you are around negative people too long then their poison starts poisoning you. Life is too hectic and hard without being around negative energy.
@rocketsky (1014)
• China
5 May 09
i dont like guys who are always negative about something happend to him . i am a optimistic girl, i never give up my dreams and i never have negative thoughts