Catch my girl friend in bed with another guy

@yuhesky (142)
China
May 5, 2009 8:02pm CST
Before talk about that I need to control my feeling,it's the fact. My friend catch her girl friend make love with other,and he was so love in with his girl friend .so he don't know how to do.we are the best friends.so he ask me do his a faver. so i hope you can help me by heart.
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5 responses
@kprofgames (3103)
• United States
6 May 09
I"m sorry and this can't be easy for your friend. I do think that people get blinded by love or the feeling of being in love and miss a lot of character flaws. She might have never been as attached to him or maybe she was loosing interest and he was so overwhelmed by his feelings he just never saw it. I can't say any easy words here. There aren't any. He's still going to have to feel the pain and loss of this girl; but she's just a girl. Not a woman, an empty headed girl that he is better off without. I agree when it was said it's better he found out now instead of later. I do truely believe that people can be in love with the 'idea' of being in love and it just blinds them to what is really going on. Sorry this happened to your friend and you're a good person to be there for him.
@yuhesky (142)
• China
6 May 09
yes,my friend.this is the first time to make girl friend.and he keep all his heart in his girl friend. but the thing happen .he haven't got ready for that .it's like a accident. now ,everything for him only have white and black .everything's color has disapear. As a good friend I really hope everyone can help me.thanks again
@ktosea (2027)
• China
6 May 09
oh...I think the only thing he could do is dump her immediately,there is no need to make the broken relationship up any more,you couldn't ensure she won't do that again,plus,personally,cheating just once is reasonable enough to break with her,he could find better.
@yuhesky (142)
• China
6 May 09
I agree with you .
@Rainegurl (2158)
• Philippines
6 May 09
Hi, yuhesky. That is horrible. That must be very painful. That thing is unforgivable for me but I do not know how it is between your friend and his girlfriend. I think your friend now has to decide whether or not to end their relationship, if he can ever forgive her or not. Take care
@yuhesky (142)
• China
6 May 09
I will give this advice to my friend ,it's the fact.all the thing he need do is separate with the bad girl friend.
@rocketsky (1014)
• China
6 May 09
if they were not caught there,things would be better . oh ,such a bad thing I could never think about ! stop the relationship at once .
@yuhesky (142)
• China
6 May 09
yes , I think so .thanks for your answer.
@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
6 May 09
Well, this goes to show that the girl is not worthy of his trust. She is not good to be a wife because she can not be trusted. It is good that your name know about the real score of his girlfriend. It is better to forget her. She is not worthy.