Why is it my fault that my partner has a dream that I'm cheating?!?!

@veromar (1457)
Argentina
May 6, 2009 3:29pm CST
Anybody else ever go through this? It drives me nuts! My better half woke up today and told me this dream she had last night. Here's the dream: We were on vacation visiting my brother and his wife. My sister-in-law drove me to the nearby mall because I wanted to buy something for my better half. I told her I'd call her in an hour to pick me up. Time went by. One hour, 2 hours and I never called. So, they decided to come and look for me. My better half and my sister in law drove to the mall. On the way, they passed a Greyhound bus station and there I was! Drunk out of my mind, getting ready to get on the bus with somebody else. That's the dream. How is this MY fault!!!?!?! Lol. I swear I got dirty looks for 2 hours this morning and I didn't have anything to do with it!
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@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
6 May 09
Hello veromar, yes my b/f has had dreams of me cheating on him when I was asleep right next to him. Well your partner might be having feeling of insecutity, not necessarily with you but maybe a job or something she has a fear of losing. I have also had dreams like that when I was married before to my real cheating EX spouse.
@veromar (1457)
• Argentina
6 May 09
That's the thing I don't understand.....we're in bed together! lol. How could I possibly be cheating?!!?! lol. I agree that it's some insecurity that bugging her. We've been together for 9 years and know each other pretty well. It drives her crazy when she's telling me her dreams (it's happened more than once, I have to hide my smile. We usually end up having a good chuckle about it after thoroughly talking about it. Sorry you had a cheating spouse. Fortunately for us, that's never been an issue.