Do you believe at love before first sight?

Philippines
May 9, 2009 1:05pm CST
To make it short: cyber-relationship. Well, at least that's how they call it. You know what it is, chat-email-sns-sites-kind of relationships? Do you believe that two person could possibly fall in love with one another without knowing how each other personally or even how each other really looks like? Could you consider it love or a mere over-reaction? I actually had my fair share of it. But I still want to know if you think it does exist. I couldn't agree with myself, my belief, actually that it doesn't.
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@Greenhill (179)
• United States
9 May 09
Two people in cyberspace may think they are in love, but you cannot love a person you have never met. You have to be able to look into another person's eyes. You have to see the person's reactions to things you say and do. You need one one one time together to know. If you meet someone you can fall in love with that person later through letters or e-mails or phone calls...but you need to meet first, or shortly thereafter. I would be totally afraid to meet someone in person that I met online. (my husband wouldn't be too happy about that either!) Flirting online is fun as long as that's all it is.
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@abanerji (1026)
• India
9 May 09
yes, love before first site is very much possible. this is not only by chating with online friends but even the matrimony sites are offering such a scope.many a times chat friends, or blog friends start interacting abd take interest in each other. soon they start sharing a good and close relationship too. they may also start interacting on telephone. this would for sure build the closeness between the two souls that have never met. this closes developes into a bond betweent he souls and on meeting such bonds become stronger. there may be disappointments too but if the bond is strong then the disappointment seems to be trivial.
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@vekstr (179)
• Sweden
10 May 09
Not at all. You have to know somebody to love someone.
• United States
11 May 09
Yes you can defiently fall inlove over something like email or chatting. When you fall inlove with someone your not falling inlove with there looks, thats a perk, your falling inlove with who they are and what shapes them. While chatting or emailing you talk about eachothers day's and share interest and dislikes and emails also can get personal on a topic that talking face to face might be hard to talk about, you get to know the person flaws and all and you can fall inlove with them because if the chemiisrty is there it does not matter where or how you fall inlove.
• United States
11 May 09
Sorry about commenting what you had responded to the question I was trying to respond and accidently commented yours. Im new at this =)
@dUKe0912 (98)
• India
9 May 09
Would you consider it 'before site' if I haven't met the person in question for about 8 years ?? Coz I'm ridiculously in love with a childhood friend when I've had no contact with her over the past 8 years !!
• Philippines
10 May 09
Well, at least you have seen your childhood friend once or twice. By the way, 8 years? That's incredible! You must have loved her so much.
• India
10 May 09
As I said, the last time we met was some 8 years ago. After that, her family moved to another city and I never met her again . . though I did meet her parents a few times. And in any case, personalities can change within a matter of months . . .