Allright How Do You Want Him To Propose You???

propose  - kiss
India
May 9, 2009 6:00pm CST
hi girls/women i have a big problem. Every time i try to propose some girl. she rejects! i have tried it many times but the same thing use to happen all the time. I don't know what always goes wrong. when i asks them, they never reply. So i am asking you all How Do You Want Him To Propose You?
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6 responses
@dUKe0912 (98)
• India
9 May 09
I haven't asked anyone out yet . . a girl proposed to me once & I was so taken aback that I refused even before considering the matter !! But since I'll be entering senior collage come july, I'm interested in this topic as well. Hope to get some useful tips from the girls on here.
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• India
9 May 09
you are welcome. since girls propose you, i can learn something from you too!
• India
9 May 09
I really have no idea why she proposed in the first place . . could be loads of reasons . . or maybe it was just peer attraction . . ??
• United States
10 May 09
HI, Duke... I am also a girl, but can't give out too many tips cuz I have no experience about propose thing. Once it happened, then it will happen. Girl proposed to you and you refuse? wow!!! she must be so embarrass about it. I dont know how it works. You haven't meet a girl that you really love yet, when you do then you will take just about anything to make her happy and propose to her. Good luck to you
@smileonstar (4013)
• United States
10 May 09
HI, sorry for all the rejection. well, you have to be honest to her and show more about love to her. You can't just love and then propose, it is not right. Sometimes you don't give her much time to think or much time to love you enough, that's why she reject. Another thing, you can't tell girl that you are good with flirting ? that's just weird. I dont know, I used to hear guy tell me that he is smart and honest with love and always want to be with one woman only... but you said, you are good with flirting... ... you should change this and start again. It might works
• India
10 May 09
hey!smiley, Don't laugh at me please! ;-). i think 1 year is sufficient time for her to fall for me. ok i am bad at flirting :). now happy! okay tell me what to say to her, means to the next one!
• India
10 May 09
I totally agree with Deepak here. It's not sensible to spend too much time on every other girl, especially when most of them turn you down !!
@prinzcy (5063)
• Malaysia
10 May 09
Before proposing, it is important for the guy to know whether I really love him or not. Also, whether I am ready to move forward in our relationships. Not just dating for months and then suddenly, pop me the question. Regardless how romantic the situation is I will definitely reject it. I don't mind the location if I really love a person but I will appreciate if he can find some place nice. It will something that I am going to remember forever so near trash can or whatever can bring down the memory a bit.
• India
10 May 09
Lol, how thick-headed would someone have to be to propose near a trash can !?? I'd certainly choose my locations carefully . . .
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
11 May 09
wow, how many times have u been proposing to gals?? Or do u mean that u have been proposing many times to the same gal?? hehe ^_^ Well, the main reason for rejecting, will be, she's not ready for marriage yet.. As i can see, u are still young and thus your future bride to be, should be quite young as well.. Also, marriage is a long term thing, and it needs to be considered seriously.. ONce she accepts your proposal, it's as good as meaning she wants to marry u.. Thus, problem does not lie in her, but in you as well ^_^ Think about it, or even discuss with her, to see why she's rejecting ^_^
@malou17 (270)
• Philippines
10 May 09
Right now... i dont think of that yet...its not on my mind yet... and i dont have bf or any relationship.. but if someday i will i want him to propose to me in an unexpected occassion or day
• United States
10 May 09
It has been along time since my husband propose to me. But, I am going to tell you how he propose to me. But do not laugh. I was propose on the phone. He was talking to me on the phone and pop the question to me.