Are you alone or do you have a partner?

@pratik87 (1927)
India
May 9, 2009 8:33pm CST
How the are things in your life? Are you alone at these moment, you have a serious relation, are you engaged or married? People are really different from one another. Some of them like to be alone and have adventure, change partners and love this kind of life for a period of time, others that had a relation, got disappointed and now they don't want to hear about love again, people that like to have a serious relation thinking to marriage and babies. How about you, in what situation are you?
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24 responses
@Beertjie (976)
• South Africa
10 May 09
I think the best partner for me at this stage is....ME. I have friends but not in relationship. Due to my health condition I don't think I want to have a relationship. I don't want to make my problem someone else's problem. I am actualy very content with myself and do not have the urge for a relationship. Maybe another time, who knows... Blessings
@Beertjie (976)
• South Africa
10 May 09
Thank you. I believe that God can heal me completely. He can also put the desire in my heart to seek a partner if it is His will. For now I am very content with the way things are. I will not fight the desire if it arises and I will not refuse friendship. I believe a relationship develope from friendship. I enjoy my friends and should a relationship develope, let God's will be done. Blessings
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
10 May 09
Hello again Beertjie, I think it is time you find someone to be with, someone you can share and enjoy life. He or she for i don't know if you are a man or a lady sorry, Your partner can support you and give streght. He or she can be of help. Always pray and trust in God for He is a great healer and He can give you a God fearing partner, for I am sure if you can find one you will be happy and regain your health. I know Our Lord can heal you and He knows what really is the desire of your heart. God Bless.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
10 May 09
He he he! I am not the one who is looking to make a life an adventure but still I am single, I do't changes partners but still I am single, I made one love proposal but still I am single. So, it means that to get a girl, you need to work very hard and if you don't get money for your work, you get disappointed, isn't it? The girl I proposed told me that "Sun and Earth can never meet with each other!" Wo, what a lecture!
@pratik87 (1927)
• India
10 May 09
i think you should have lectured her back that there is a day when the sun earth and moon all meet in a line. and one day would be enough for you i think for the time being for what you are looking to do.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
10 May 09
Well, I couldn't think of anything as this was like declining my offer. I didn't want to make any arguments with her as it must not have anything to do. I was really really sad on that day and was like crying for the whole day!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
10 May 09
i am married for six years already. we have a three year old son and we are happy. sometimes i work out of town so i communicated with them through text messaging, or phone calls. when i work far i wish i can bring them along with me. maybe when our child is big enough then i can bring them. before i met my wife i am a loner i just stay mostly inside the house and only go out to work or to do errands. when i met my wife i became a person who is out going for my wife is very out going and very friendly as well.
@annierose (18959)
• Philippines
10 May 09
hi pratik, I have a partner but I feel alone.My relationship with him is a serious one even it is a long distance relationship.We got some problems once in a while but we always find a way to find solution for that one.Our love is full of trust and respect. We have also a plan to see each other in person and get marred someday.But lately, things are going tough on us. Cultural differences is playing a big role that leads to our misunderstandings.And as now, I do not know what to say to him once he come online again. And he feel same way also. He feels sad and worried that I am going to be so unhappy with him. But I really love him despite the obstacles between us.
@pratik87 (1927)
• India
12 May 09
is this is an online relationship you two are having? are you saying you have not seen him in person? if that is the case then you should not be thinking so far ahead till marriage.
@parthu28 (498)
• India
11 May 09
you could say i belong to the third lot....... i am happy in a very serious relationship right now.it been six years and we are thinking of marrying and all..
• India
11 May 09
Some people say :love needs to run hard.Taiwan a psychologist also said this quote 'everyone should love, whether you want to get married, to fall in love there is a very important psychological task is from the love in a better understanding of themselves and develop their own love of capacity'. Well, currently I am single but searching for an able partner as my studies would also be over soon now.
@pree70 (525)
• India
10 May 09
I had a disastrous marriage and got seperated from my husband ten years ago. initially i used to enjoy my 'single' status. but off late, i found that i longed for a companion. In the midst of it all, a wonderful person entered my life. things are quite difficult as our relationship cannot be acknowledged publicly due to his marital status, but love is indeed blind. i know i am crazy, but i can't help loving him. i just hope that i am able to be content with the way things are progressing presently. and i also keep hoping and praying for a day when we both may be able to be together as man and wife.
@jimbo88 (231)
• Indonesia
10 May 09
I'm alone my friend. But I just had friends not a partner. I'm still young so i couldn't find a partner. It means i didn't have good time too choose my partner. Maybe abut 5 or 7 years again. I think that is wonderful if we have good person to be a partner. :D
@cmy1004f (381)
• China
10 May 09
Now I live with Mum and my nephew, simply to say I am alone. To me there is not so many time to love with a man, it seems very low of my EQ, I don't feel lonely even without boyfriend. I need others' love of course, but not necessarily only for lover's, I think just like Garfileld or Snoopy, friends and host is enough.
@4u2enjoy (300)
• Malaysia
10 May 09
I'm having a great relationship with my partner. She is always there for me when i need her. For me, there are people who prefer to be lonely and certain prefer to be with partner. It is great to have a relationship because you get to learn more stuffs from your partner.
@jmlynn (46)
• United States
10 May 09
I am married. I have been with the same man since I was 17 years old and am now 26. We have a 5 year old daughter. Sometimes I feel so alone even with him here because we just don't have the emotional connection anymore. The physical connection is still there, but even a casual conversation is too much anymore. Part of me wonders what else is out there, as I shouldn't have to live like this - feeling alone and unappreciated, but I am so in love with him still that I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. I guess you could say a lot of that is the comfort feeling of he's all I've known for the last 9 years, you know? Another part of me wants another baby, but we just aren't on the same page and our goals are completely different from one another. I crave what we used to be for the first 3 years...it just seems like we are stuck in a rut now that we will never get out of.
@vekstr (179)
• Sweden
10 May 09
I just got out of a relationship. It was a long distance relationship, It didn't work very well it would be hard enough if we lived near each other. So I decided to end it, it was to exhausting and it didn't go very well.
• Philippines
10 May 09
i am currently single as of the moment , now some people might classify that as "loser" status but im seriously ok with it. Ive come to realize i dont need someone to complete my life. Ive become more independent and ive generally learned how to function alone. but but but if someone does come along , well that will be alright too :)
• United States
10 May 09
Currently alone, just got out of a major serious long relationship well he left me for his pregnant x girlfriend he is now engaged to! I am the adventre type but I much rather be adventurous with someone to share all the fun with. I had my heart broken but im not down on love and I cant wait till it comes around again!
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
10 May 09
hi pratik87, I have been married, got divorced and are now enjoying the satisfaction being a divorced, single, fulltime working mother. I feel independent and happy of how my life have turned out to be. My freinds around me, my family say, are you not going to try to find a new partner, and my reply is - no, never ever. I like being on my own, I like to keep my responsebility to me and my 18 year old son sitll live home...I will enjoy the day I have only myself to think about. I know that sounds crazy, but that is who I am and I am not going to change it becouse other people think I should. If for some reason I do meet someone, then I will keep it as I wish living apart and see that person when ever I feel like it.
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
10 May 09
For the moment I am alone and find myself lonely at times when I look around everybody going out with their gf/bf. Yet, I don't make a big issue out of it as there's life still to go and you don't know what may happen the next instant. As for swapping or cheating partners after getting married is concerned, I personally believe, it must be avoided.
@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
10 May 09
Well There is nothing mentioned about people like me here. I used to have one sided love with a girl but I never proposed her and was forced to forget her due to some family problems. And after that I never found anyone so special as she is. Still it is a puzzle because her marriage is arranged and will happen this year. So I am avoiding to visit my native place after that.
• China
10 May 09
I am alone.And now I want to have a boyfriend. Maybe I want someone to cherish me.
@hireshd (490)
• India
10 May 09
Things are cool in my life, I ive ife taking as it comes rather than thinking what next is planned for me, because of which I am able to enjoy each and every moment, when something depressing happens with me as with all I am sad but later make it thinking that this is not going to in existence for ever and i forget those moments.During such times I occupy myself in activities which intrests me like meeting friends, trying my hands at crafts, photoshop, chatting
@moujha (86)
• Mauritius
10 May 09
I do have a partner and i love her a lot. Am only 20 years and am thinking of marriage in 2 years because i want to live with her in a marital bond. God blesses a relationship which is bounded by marriage...