How do you know if it is already BIG? should you compare it?

I think I understand what you are asking. I do think that it varies from person to person. I think that most people would always like more money. I know that I would! I think that everyone would like more money. I think that the difference is what people are willing to do for that extra money. It seems like your friend is happy with her life, so she wont actively search for something more. I would believe that she would accept more money if it were offered for the same things she is doing now. I think there are othe rpeople out there who are always trying as hard as possible to get a little bit more. I would consider myself to be one of those people. I dont think it is evil, I dont think it is bad. It is a security thing. I want to know that my husband would be ok if something happened to me. I want to know that I would be able to live if I were to suddenly lose my income. If I had more of an income, I would better be able to prepare for this. I think there are different things that motivate everyone. I do think that it is natural to want a little bit more, the difference is definitely what will motivate you to go after it.