what to do if you know that your bestfriend's boyfriend has another girlfriend?
By christian1
@christian1 (134)
Greece
May 11, 2009 5:15am CST
i love my bestfriend.we were friends when we were still in elementary years till now.But i know she love her boyfriend too much too.One day i happened to see his boyfriend with another girl.I thought shes just somebody to him maybe sister or friend or coworker.later i found out from my sister(who happened to be friend of the girl hes dating)that they are boyfriends and quite long together already.If youre on my shoes,what will you do?I need your opinions mylotters!
4 responses
@Cathy1263 (32)
• United States
11 May 09
True friends can tell each other anything. That means good, bad, and things that may hurt there feelings. Honesty is always the best policy in any situation. If you value your friendship, verify your facts first and tell her. If it were you who had a roaming boyfriend wouldn't you want someone to tell you??
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
11 May 09
Well if you know for certain that he is cheating I would say something to her BUT keep in mind htat she may not believe you....Its a sticky situation to be in but withholding the info only for your friend to find out later and find out that you knew and didnt say anything could turn out to be a bad scene ya know...
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@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
11 May 09
If I saw my best friends significant other, I would tell them immediately! They have a right to know and if they found out that you knew all along and didn't tell them, it could jeopardize your friendship!
@christian1 (134)
• Greece
11 May 09
considering she loves too much the guy,and i think she maybe believe more him than me(i expect thats how she loves him)can you risk your friendship by telling her?
@subi21 (72)
• India
11 May 09
If I am in your situation definitely I will inform my friend. I will atleast say that I had seen them together so many times , it is better you keep an eye on him or check him. I will try to make my friend understand about the situation. I will say that I dont want my friend to get cheated. And I will be with you always as a good friend and will support her for any help she needed.
