can a man be friends with a woman without an attraction?

August 27, 2006 8:03am CST
many people tell me that the guy must fancy you if they befreind you? is this true??
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19 responses
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
5 Sep 06
Most of my better friends are male..women are so back stabbing..men are fun.
@Katy238 (1028)
• United States
25 Oct 06
I agree with you bhchy I get along a lot better with men for some reason.
• United States
12 Jan 07
I don't think that an attraction has anything to do with a true relationship. An attraction too much, will take away from the friendship.
• Singapore
11 Jan 07
of course it's not true...i have many male friends and believe me, i've looked my worst LOL and i dont choose my friends based on their looks too...it's the heart that count.
• United States
7 Nov 06
My hubby has more female friends than male and they range from very heavy and not attractive to attractive women. So no, they don't have to be after you to befirend you.
@slimes (353)
• Ukraine
1 Jan 07
it depends on the individual but i believe is possible
@jep_toyo (1606)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
yes they can especially if you treat her as your lil sister or brother.
25 Oct 06
As freinds go,a guy can relate to a lady and treat her as such without wanting any intimantcy.However there are guys who play the feiel.Now for me,I can be freinds with a lady and keep as such.not all guys can.
@tickedoff (672)
• United States
5 Sep 06
I have had lots of female friends in my time. Before , during,and after my marriage. nothing ever went past friends. I value a GOOD friendship. So, yes they can.
@chukwudi (1098)
• Nigeria
25 Oct 06
no way ,attraction goes before love ,unless the man is pretending
• India
27 Sep 06
Ofcourse man can make friendhsip with a woman without attraction. I think friendship needs trust,understanding.... but not beauty.
• United States
26 Sep 06
Yes, that is possible, it doesn't mean that everytime that you have a friend(girl) means that you are bfs and gfs. Like in my situation, I have "some" friends(girl) but our it will stay there, just friends.
• China
26 Sep 06
Yes
@1alyssa (758)
• United States
26 Sep 06
yes i think so friends can be friends and nothing more some friends look at eachother more like sister and brother or family than attraction
@JNKnaub (135)
• United States
26 Sep 06
Yes.
@shuz697 (1043)
• United States
27 Aug 06
yes of corse they can... i have a heap of male friends and I know that its not a attraction thing we are real friends...
• United States
3 Sep 06
I think men can be friend with women without an attraction. I have a male friend from college. He is like my big brother to me and Im like a little sister. We dont see much but we still keep in touch. We never had relationship beyond regular friendship.
@jhannon (1406)
• United States
28 Aug 06
I think so!
• United States
4 Sep 06
Yes it is definately true unless he is gay :-) , if he is straight like me then usually a guy befriends a girl because he is interested in more somewhere along the line and a girl most likely knows this and actually does want him as just a friend but doesnt mind the attention she gets from her male friends but acts naive about it as if she doesnt know he is interested :-)
• India
2 Sep 06
Mostly not... It just a rare occasion that this happens.