Have You Been in a relationship where your partner has gotten lazy?

United States
May 12, 2009 10:30am CST
Hmm well since my Question didn't fit completely in the "discussion Subject" area, hopefully the online members, decide to take a look,well my question is "Have you ever been in or are in a relationship where you or your partner start to get lazy? as in they don't try as hard as they used to, when you started to date?" Well i am wondering if this is normal or not, since for the past week or 2, it seems that my girlfriend of 7 months, has gotten lazy in the relationship, do girls start to try less, now that they have the guy they want to be with forever? or is it that she doesn't see the need to try anymore, since she already has me? hmm well my Girlfriend used to ALWAYS every single morning, be up before me so i would get a "Good morning! i love you! hope you slept good" text, but recently she just doesn't text me, she will just send me a text like "i am watching tv" and just what she is doing, but i don't get "Good morning i love you" anymore :\ am i over reacting? or is she really starting to be lazy? i am REALLY curious but at the same thing, really worried, i don't want her to be bored with me, or stop trying, because i want to be with a girl who pays attention to me!! so lets see what everyone else has to say!! hopefully i get some reply s and if you made is this far, THANK YOU!!
3 responses
@angelsmummy (1696)
12 May 09
Hi, I found this a really interesting subject to comment about, girls are normally the ones who are most attentive and make sure they get into a ritual in the hope that the partner does the same. Speak to her about it as she may not realise, i was in a relationship once where my partener seemed to get bored of me after just 3 months and i asked him about it and it turned out he was cheating on me so that wasnt great.. but dont think that i hope she isnt!! you seem like a nice person.
• United States
12 May 09
Hmm that you for commenting :) i will do my best so you can come back and read some of my more discussions, with interesting topics, and i will do my best to bring it up but the way i see it, it seems like its just me nagging her to text me in the morning or give me a call, i know it really isn't much to ask for, but i got used to it even before we were together, she would text me at least a "Good Morning" and i will sit down with her and have a talk :) thank you!!
• Philippines
15 May 09
nope............................................................................................................................................................................
• Hong Kong
12 May 09
you can have that in a relationship but so bad that if someone love u so much, it is hard to leave someone which get close to your heart, you may have those tears for him that you may lose who you are for being that.. always hear those words he wants you to know..