IF YOU SEEN YOUR FREIND'S MAN CHEATING ON HER, WOULD YOU TELL???

United States
November 11, 2006 5:24pm CST
TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL THAT'S THE QUESTION ????
23 responses
@isasice (2015)
• Iceland
11 Nov 06
That is a very hard question to answer. I recently ran into my friends husband on a chat site and he was there looking for a date. He doesn't know who I am on there but he told me a few too many details so I knew who he was. This isn't a very close friend but I felt it wasn't mine to tell her. I told her husband in an email through that chat site that I knew who he was and that his wife was my friend. His account had been deleted the next day so hopefully that scared him enough to stop those plans. He hadn't actually cheated yet but he was planning on it.
@isasice (2015)
• Iceland
11 Nov 06
Would you tell him if she was cheating on him?
• United States
11 Nov 06
IT WOULD PROBLY HAVE TO BE A GOOD FREIND OF MINE IF I TOLD HER... THATS A GOOD ONE ...
@Lovely_Lady (1524)
• United States
13 Nov 06
Oh hell yeah I would say something. First of all, he shouldn't even be doing it in front of me. Secondly, there's no one to blame but him. And lastly, she deserves better. No woman should have to go through bullshits with mans. Sorry for my language. But how would you feel if your man was cheating on you? Wouldn't you like someone to tell you or when you ask someone and hoping to learn and know the truth? If a friend lies to you then she might be the one being with your man. I wouldn't even consider a person like that my friend. A friend should be someone you can count on, not someone for your man. I know it's going to hurt but someone has to say something before matter gets worst. And I'm sure you'll thank me for being a friend and just looking out.
• United States
14 Nov 06
THANKS FOR YOUR RESPONSE !!!!
@caribe (2465)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I would tell her if I knew that I could prove it beyond any doubt on her part, that he is cheating.
• United States
14 Nov 06
THANK YOU - THANK YOU
THAN YOU FOR YOUR RESPONSE !!!
@masta86 (469)
• Estonia
11 Nov 06
I think i would tell her... But im not entirely sure. And other thing is that she might not believe me..
• United States
11 Nov 06
EXACTLY I HAVE A FRIEND THAT WAS IN THAT SITUATION WELL SHE WAS GETTING CHEATED ON AND SHE DIDN'T BELIEVE ANY ONE UNTIL THEY ACTUALLY SHOWED HER THEY TOOK HER TO WERE HER MAN WAS AND SHE CAUGHT HIM HERSELF SOMETIMES THATS WHAT PEOPLE HAVE TO DO I GUESS !!!
• United States
22 Jan 07
It depends. I did that one time. I worked with this Mexican girl who moved to Nevada with his boyfriend because their parents didn't approve of the relationship. They both work but she is the responsible one who pays for most of everything. We were close enough to for me to learn these things about her. One day at the mall, I saw her boyfriend strolling with a girl who looked much older than him, but dressed like a wild woman. He had his arms around her while walking and he even saw me. One time at work he told me not to tell her that she won't believe me. But I did tell her and they fought. The guy was so upset with me he tried to threaten me and my boyfriend. I told him, he shouldn't be cheating if he doesn't want to be caught. I don't know what else happened because I left that job, I didn't like it anymore. But I only told her because I cared about her like a friend. And I think she deserves to know.
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
yeah! i will tell my friend ...if she's that dumb she cant noticed that one that her man is cheating on her...i fo love my friend i will tell her...but its up to her what will be her decision if she still continue the relationship bet. her and her man or broke up w/ him...well! at least no guilt felt coz ive seen her man w/ another gurl...at least she's aware of what his man doing to him.....screwed that kind of person...cheater go to hell...
• Canada
22 Jan 07
I would tell her for sure because I would hope that the favor would be returned in the future so yeah I am a strong believer in what comes around goes around
• United States
22 Jan 07
I think you should tell. You may be faced with her calling you a lair, but hey atleast you tried. Then when the truth does come out she will know that you had her back. If you loose her as a friend, well thats her problem, atleast you were not that close anyway so its no skin off your back. Atleast you tried to do the right thing.
@few00cent (2141)
• India
21 Jan 07
probably yes...but i would like to give her hint or say indirectly because i don't wanna mess or dispute o...its might she who wont believe my word or he may lia ..who knows when things can goes wrong on us.
@pinklilly (3446)
• Australia
21 Jan 07
I would if I was 100% sure and I would hope my friends would do the same for me...
• India
21 Jan 07
i wud try to tell so that everything can be solved b/w th two
• United States
14 Nov 06
not my biz
• United States
14 Nov 06
i would and i did. the only true problem with telling is that if he comes up with a good story or your friend doesnt believe you then u become the bad guy
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
14 Nov 06
i should, i'm a friend, am i not?
@suzieque (2336)
• Canada
14 Nov 06
It really depends if we're close or not. If she was a close friend of mine. I will tell her right away. I would expect her to do the same for me.
• United States
14 Nov 06
I would. Who knows what kind of "stuff" he will bring home to her if he isn't being safe. It would be wrong to withhold information.
@harmonium (547)
• Canada
14 Nov 06
i prefer open minde relashionship so we do with the other not in there back
@Bettyann (2486)
• United States
14 Nov 06
yes i would for her safty
@fiasco007 (819)
• United States
14 Nov 06
mmm good 1 i do ones end was a bad end i dont know maybe not... better
@xtinelee (3378)
• Singapore
14 Nov 06
Repeated qns. But my ans would be this, how well do you know your friend? will he/she believe you even if you told him/her?