long distance relationship

Portugal
May 13, 2009 6:17am CST
So, i'm comin to you guys for help! i'm a pretty imaginative person but, at the moment, i'm runnig out of ideas! I have a boyfriend, with whom i'm very much in love with. T he thing is we live in different cities and for the next 2 years there's not much hope of moving in together. It is rather harder and we hate it! From time to time i really like doing something to brighten up his day. I send him loving letters, or sweet emails, i've send him a package which had a wooden box containing hugs and kisses for him and i've baked him cookies and sent them through the mail. He loved it... But that's pretty much all i have; could you guys help me out with some fresh ideas?
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besthope44
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Go in for skype video chats, you can find them closer than your miss!
eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
if your boyfriend really loves you, i don't think that it still matters to him that you'll have to send him stuffs everyday because he knows that you have provenyour love for him so much.
sweetpea20
@sweetpea20 (7)
• United States
25 Jun 09
i know what your feeling my boyfriend and i like in 2 different places he lives in MO and i live in MI its VERRRRY hard not to be with the one you really love... the way me and him keep in contact is phone and internet and letters through mail i send him little gifts that he likes even candy that is safe in the mail.. so if you find out what kind of candy or stuff he likes that is safe to be put in the mail send it to him...just keep your head up...
shikimurei
@shikimurei (284)
• Philippines
16 May 09
wow..you are such a sweet girl friend..he is lucky to have you. what does he like? what if you make a scrap book? try to put all the things you guys liked and pictures of moments you have been with together.. :) I hope your long distance relationship works....
rajeshfgh
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
13 May 09
I would say doing such small yet caring things is just about enough to make your bf really happy and make him feel that you really care for him. You could also, probably, call him up and chat for sometime. Fresh idea, would be let your creative juices flow and surprise him with one of your original creative ideas which he's not anticipated anytime.
friendship4lyfe
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
17 May 09
I think if both of you are devoted to the relationship it should work out pretty well.I too was in a long distance relationship and it lasted four wounderful years but i was so stupid i hurt him without even considering all the efforts we both made and how good he was to me.when we saw each other i complained,accused him and tried everything to start a fight.I never realize that i was hurting my relationship until he broke it off.Doing those little romantic things are good.Continue and always try to put a smile on his face.Be understanding and dont complain to much.The two years will pass so fast you wont even notice.Long distance relationship is a good one always make you feel like its the first time when you meet.Send emails,love notes/letters,phone calls and any other form of communication you can think of to let him know that you miss and love him.It will help sustain your relationship longer.Never give up because love is the most important necessity in life.GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!!!!!