when someone knocks on your door without your spouse,will you let him/her in?

Greece
May 14, 2009 4:57am CST
Some times, were alone, our neighbor comes to visit for a talk but it so happened that your spouse is out,will you let him in specially if your a girl?
3 responses
• United States
18 May 09
That depends on whether or not you are comfortable with your neighbor. If he/she is a good friend and you have had them over or chatted with them on numerous occasions and trust them, then yes. However if they make you uncomfortable you always have the option to say that you were just getting ready to leave or something of that nature. Of course you could always just look through the peephole in the door before opening it or just not answer. I very rarely answer the door because my neighbors almost always call before they come over.
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@chillpill90 (1936)
14 May 09
i think it depends on your neighbour and how well you feel you know them. I generally would only let them in if i knew them well enough or if not just tlk to them on the door or make some excuse up like im going out if they can see im in. If they cant then i would just ignore the door i mean i do it anyway sometimes because there are times when i just want to be on my own.
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• United States
22 May 09
christian1, I would never let anyone in the house if my spouse was not here. Unless of course it was family, or someone that I had known for a very long time, and knew them well. There are just to many crimes going on today. How sad many of us must live with bars on our windows & doors. And screen everyone that comes to our door. But such is life today, and we must do whatever it takes to remain safe.