do u think we can trust our frindz now a dayz?

India
May 15, 2009 7:29am CST
what do u think now a dayz can we trust on our freindz?not share our secrets with other..not to stab from back...??????/
7 responses
17 May 09
I had one friend who I always went and spoke to all the time and if I ever needed a shoulder to cry on she was always there but unfortunately since she has started seeing her new boyfriend she hasn't been there for me. I told her something in secret and she told her boyfriend. I was really annoyed by it and now I feel I can't trust her anymore. I'm sure there are some great friends out there we can trust, maybe we just haven't found them yet!
@ebook_freak (1511)
• India
16 May 09
Oh yes. Why not. Friends are friends, regardless of the are or culture. They should be trustworthy. If they are not, then they are not your friends.
• Philippines
15 May 09
It's hard now to trust a friend specially your new friend. But there are other friend whom you cant give your trust to. But you have to be very careful on that. You have to know your friend better beforeyou can trust them. Trust a friend who doesnt leave you behind or left you hanging. And the one who is not afraid to be beaten by you. And would be proud of your accomplishment and doesnt matter if you excel than her/him. I guess that's the characterestic of a true friend.
• Philippines
15 May 09
It depends upon the characteristics of your friends. There are some friends who are backstabbers while there are some who can be trusted. Nowadays, it is really hard to distinguish them so be careful of telling secrets. I do trust my friends a lot because I have known their characteristics and their deepest thoughts. However, I'm very picky at them when it comes to my secrets.
• India
15 May 09
Well I am a very shy type of boy and have a very few friends and I'm sure that I can trust them, come what may. So I think, the key is to have few friends, instead of making too many friends... If you are gonna sit on a public seat and if a stranger says that the paint is wet, you DON'T TRUST him and check yourself whether the seat is wet by touching it.... But if the same person says there's a bomb under the seat, you'll SURELY TRUST him and run away.... What say ? Trust is so complicated...
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
15 May 09
for me,first of all,I'll make sure what kind of people my friend is.is he a person that can keep secret.if he's that type,I'll share my secret with him.if not,I'm not even will telling him anything!
@jtine23 (41)
• United States
15 May 09
i've had such a difficult time in the last year regarding friends and who i can and can't trust, and boy has it been a learning experience! i think it all really depends on the people around you. i think people need to pay closer attention, and watch how they treat their other friends and their family.. chances are, if they're constantly stabbing other people in the back or hurting them, they're likely to follow suit eventually and do it to you as well. there are lost of good people in the world and i have faith that if you surround yourself with positive energy, you'll be sure to receive it in return! treat others the way you'd like to be treated, and if somebody is not treating you well.. then say goodbye!