Why do the jerks pick up the girls?

United States
May 15, 2009 3:51pm CST
Alright, so typically i am the nice guy that gets walked on, but recently i've kind of been a jerk and this girl is completely attracted to that. Why are girls attracted to guys that are jerks?
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• United States
16 May 09
It is usually a self-esteem deficiency on the girl's part. A girl with low self-esteem will be attracted to a guy that she can appear to be morally superior to. Then when other people evaluate the couple, she will automatically look like the "good" one. This is such a common problem in our society and it is continually perpetuated in part by the media showing us a picture perfect woman, which is not real. Then the girls watching these images are made to feel inferior.
• United States
15 May 09
That's a great question. As a female I don't have the answer to. Its weird though. But some guys are like that, too, being attract to a witch when the one thats for you is staring you right in the face. Someone people are attractive to their opposite some are attracted to a person who seems in "CHARGE". Its crazy hope you find the right one someday. Good luck... all girls don't go for jerks [at least they don't know they are jerks until later :) ]