what would you do if...

Philippines
May 19, 2009 2:49am CST
your partner left you for another girl/guy? will you freak out or jsut let him/her go? share your opinions! thanks!
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14 responses
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
19 May 09
Well i would be mad that's for sure. I don't know what will i do next but i think i would confront my former girlfriend about it. I don't think i will just let her go without an explanation. I may not want to get her back because first and foremost she betrayed me. So i guess i will just need her explanation then move on without her. Of course it would be painful but there's nothing i can do. right?
• Philippines
19 May 09
yah.. you're right.. you should give her a chance to explain.. maybe you just misinterpreted her.. have you been in that situation?
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
19 May 09
Yeah, i have twice. I'm beginning to get used to it but i guess each of the girls are unique so i really shouldn't generalize them.
• Philippines
19 May 09
hahaha... malapit ka sa mga gnung babae..
@MyzDy19 (919)
• Philippines
19 May 09
Partner? I will be shocked of course but I will never let him see that. Hmmm then I will ignore him to the maximum level wahahaha I'll let him see and realize what he loses... Anyway,..if the guy really do that to me..then he's so pathetic LoL
• Philippines
19 May 09
hahaha it's not your loss..hahahah will you revenge on him?
@MyzDy19 (919)
• Philippines
19 May 09
LoL Revenge? Nah... I'll never do that I don't want to waste my time in that trash hehehe ^^
• Philippines
20 May 09
weh...hahaha e wat if he makes you jealous lang?
• India
19 May 09
Freak out at first and let him/her know and then just forget about it....once gone its better not to keep hope on them. Believe me a second chance messes-up a lot of things if you are not lucky enough.
• Philippines
19 May 09
oh... what if he/she wants you back? and ask for forgiveness? and despite what he/she'd done.. you still love him?
• India
19 May 09
All I can say ( after experience is ) ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! You can some one else better.
• Philippines
19 May 09
do you mean i can find someone else better?
@sonusd (1548)
• India
19 May 09
The incident ahs already happened with me . when my girlf riend left me just for a good looking guy then i started crying infront of her i always forcefully asked why she left me and what may be the reason, if the looking is the matter i said that i will join gym and will work out and will have a good physique she did not listen me anything and told that we will be good frieds but not again lover then i went to gym to do exercise and then i made a very good body and now i am good looking and better girls are now behind me because i am a good looking person and well established so I suggest you allf friends whom ever there bf/gf left do not stay there go ahead you will find better things there
• Philippines
20 May 09
what is your ex gf's reaction when he see you? does she wants you back after your make over?
@sonusd (1548)
• India
20 May 09
i am also confused some time but i tried to avoid her because it will hamper my current relation
• Philippines
24 May 09
did you tell your past relationship to your current one?
• Indonesia
19 May 09
I think I will be sad at first, but only for a day :) Then I will carry on with my life. Life is precious and I don't want to spend the rest of my life crying for someone who has already forgotten about me.
• Philippines
19 May 09
i think it's easy to say, but hard to do...especially if you really loved that person very much.. am i right? did you experienced that?
• Indonesia
19 May 09
Oh yes, I have had a broken heart several times before I finally met my husband :)
• Philippines
19 May 09
oh..i see. i'm happy for both of you!
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
ahmm...I'll just let him go..haha..It's not my lost...haha..besides, if he left me for other girl,it only means that he don't really love me...and I know that I can still find a better man that will love me for who I am..
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
haha..what I mean is loss not lost...
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
wow..hehehe is there someone that makes you happy right now?ayee...hehehe
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
19 May 09
Hi jhoanne1215, what would I do if this situation happens to me. Well I'll try to work out things first with her, talking it out and fixing our problems. I'll listen to her and also reason out and try to compromise. If it doesn't fix out well I'll let her go, I wont push myself to her. I'll just watch her pack her things and watch her go. Well it's already ridiculous stopping someone who is not sensible. Enough is enough! What can I say Love ain't everything! Have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
19 May 09
me too!i'll so the same thing.. tahnks for replying!
• Philippines
19 May 09
what i mean is i'll do the same thing and thanks for replying!C:
@sharksfin (1098)
• Philippines
28 May 09
It's a total insult, aside that it aches. If I can still do something about it, like if I know that he still loves me ...just he's doing what most men are doing -- cheating -- then, I'd do whatever it takes to try to win him back. By freaking out, I could only shove him away. So, if I truly love him, I'd show how much I love him to try to win him back. But, if I feel that he's not anymore in love with me, then, I'd just let go. No other way. Sad but I gotta take the courage to save myself.
• Philippines
2 Jun 09
yah you're right! but will you revenge? other girls do it because of the heartaches they felt after their boyfriends did it..
• China
22 May 09
If my partner want to leave me for another girl,first i will get angry and warn him not to go .i will try my best to prevent him.if i let him go ,he will do this the next time.
• Philippines
24 May 09
if you let him go,he will do this next time to another girl?or to you?
• Philippines
20 May 09
If my partner would left me for another girl, I'll freak out first then would demand the truth on why he had done that? What had gone wrong in our relationship? And after confrontations, I'll just let him go. Clinging on to him will do no good and will just lessen self respect. If I were to be dump, I want to be dump with my head still up high.
• Philippines
20 May 09
i agree..you have still pride to be left.. did you experienced that?
@WebMann (4732)
• Canada
19 May 09
I think I would do both, especially if she didn't talk to me about it first. I know people change and so do love interests but it should be discussed. As for would I let them go, well DUH, what else would you do, lock em up somewhere. :) It would definitely be time to move on, the heart will heal eventually. Although looking back through my 5 decades I still have a few sore spots on my heart for lost love. But I have no hard feelings.
• Philippines
19 May 09
At first I showed to them I didn't like what they had done to me. I showed my anger that reached "hell", then, after expressing myself, I ignore them, later, I just considered him just a good friend. I went back to myself, be nice to me, act like me again, friendly, sexy, happy and when my guy wanted to come back, hello! I just smile and said he is just a very good friend, because I learned my lesson so hard, that it broke my heart, so, I have no more heart left for him.
• Philippines
20 May 09
it sounds like you experienced that, well..good for you.. you are already over him...how long does it take you to move on?
19 May 09
I would be really upset and devastated and i would ask lots of questions but if they were really adament that they wanted to be with someone else then I guess I would let them go. If they say they want to be with someone else and go off with someone else its pretty obvious to me that they feel more for that person than they do me.
• Philippines
20 May 09
would you revenge?
• United States
19 May 09
I would freak out for sure, i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and had our fair share of problems but we worked through them and i learned to deal with his faults and flaws.....so if he left me for another girl, after all we went through and all i accepted, i would be totally pissed off and it wouldn't be pretty lol
• Philippines
19 May 09
lol! you should tell him that he's very lucky to have you..