What is your definition of success?

China
May 19, 2009 10:04am CST
Dear All, What is your definition of success? This is the question my friend asked me when we were having breakfast. I thought for a while, and then i told him that, "self-worth and satisifactory of life". Then he tell me about his definition of success is to grow, to experienced new things, can be trusted by friends. It seems different people really have different idea about success, what about yours? What is the key elements being success in life? Please share. Happy Mylotting!
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21 responses
@enciel (368)
• Philippines
20 May 09
success for me is something that makes you feel complete. having the feeling that you have done it and found the happiness you desire. it can be as simple as having a simple family and house and good friends. the simplicity of joy in life is something that can be consider a success for me. some would define it as reaching the top career and gaining a lot of money but i guess it's the satisfaction you feel in your life that defines success. When you are happy and proud of what you have and achieved in life that is success :D
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@enciel (368)
• Philippines
21 May 09
yes that's true great minds think alike hahaha! it's good to know i share the same opinion with another person :) i wish other people would consider these simple kind of things as success in their lives. some people strive a lot to be called "successful" by the people in their environment(gaining a lot of money,big house, top career etc) and fail to notice that simple things in life that we have or encounter is something we should be thankful because of the life satisfaction you feel with these little things over the other material things some may call a "success"
• China
21 May 09
Hi Enciel, Thanks for responding my discussion. I am 100% with you! Great mind think alike. I have the same idea of success. It's all about ourselves, are you happy with what you are doing?Are you happy with your freinds? Are you happy about everything that you have now? If the answer is yes for above, you are successful!
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
20 May 09
yeah vivian,each people have their own definition about success in their live.For me,success is a level where I have a happy family,achieve excellent result in my work and of course,have a healthy life!
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• China
21 May 09
Hi Enruschew, Thanks for responding my discussion. Happy is a very important element in life. If you feel happy, you will live better, work better and successful!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 May 09
My definition of success would be, when I am able to achieve what I wanted to do according to my capability and experience. It is also the point of making others happy with what I achieved. Its making parents proud of me.
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• China
21 May 09
Hi Subha, Thanks for responding my discussion. I agree that makeing my parents prond of me can be consider as success. After all, what we did is just to make ourself look better, isn't it?
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
20 May 09
success is being at peace, free from debts,free from worries, comfortable living, happy with children and friends, feeling God's presence and getting well along with neighbors. It would mean cheers and smiles as well.
• China
21 May 09
Hi Bing28, Thanks for responding my discussion. I think you are right, free from debts and worries, comfortable living, good relationship with people are all what we want for life!
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
Yes you are right in defining success. I just want to add a few words. Success means doing the right things at right time. I think it is also very important. All the successful men have this quality. You may do things right but latter time when the chance has gone and this will not make you successful. It is very very important that you do the right thing at right time and then and then only you will be successful.
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• China
21 May 09
HI Arkasen. Thanks for the adding. I think doing the right thing in the right time request the quality of our people. You need to have some skils,knowledges, key peoples. I think you meant success in business, right?
@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
20 May 09
For me, success is fulfilling something that I am longing to have. When I reach my goal, I can say that there is success. In every endeavor that I made, if I made it then I call it success.
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• China
21 May 09
Hi Yonkie, Thanks for responding my discussion. Reach a goad can give you happy feeling, that is a success in your life. Keep going~!
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
19 May 09
There are so many areas one can be successful in. For me I never expected to get married, heck I didn't even expect to live long enough to find someone to marry. I have now been married for 27 years, that's success for me. I also never expected to have a son to carry on my name but that happened to and it was planned, not a happy accident by any means. So I am successful there as well. I am the last male in our family to carry on the name, my other brother has two girls. I have a grade nine education from way back in 1969 and never expected to go far in life but now I work from home, make my living online and have helped a lot of people along the way. That's success to me. There are so many things in my life that I am successful at but I am not any different than most other people I know, it's just with them, they expected to do all those things. :)
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• China
21 May 09
Hi WebMann, Thanks for responding my disucssion. And thanks for sharing your experience with us. To me, you've done lots of miracle things that you did not expect them come to you. You did it and you did it well! Congratulations!
• United States
20 May 09
My idea of success is doing things that you should and getting them done. But I think its biggest when you get things done you WANT to do. Not just should. Shoulds are fine, we do those. But what about dreams fulfilled? Things done we want to do? They still affect our lives so I think thats success is getting THOSE things done as well as other things too :)
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• China
21 May 09
Hi Monkeywriter, Thanks for responding my discussion. I like your idea, success is not to complete those what we should do, is to complete or achieve what we want. That's a big difference in and between.
• Brisbane, Australia
20 May 09
Success is not restricted to just career but one should also have peace, satisfaction, morals and respect to others. "Simple living and high thinking."
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@GioBuffon (119)
• Canada
20 May 09
I personally think that success is when you're trying to setup a goal. Once you set it up, you do actions to reach it and when you finally reached it, you have gotten the success you wanted. This is just my opinion ! If you don't work for the success you want, you won't get it.
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• China
21 May 09
Hi Giobuffon, Thanks for responding my discussion. I got your opinion, for you, achieve your goad is the defination of success.
@Jenniferp (210)
• United States
20 May 09
I think that success is different for everyone, it all depends on your definition. If your goals have been met, you are successful. If your desire includes a nice home and peace, you work to have this just as if were to be rich. I keep my goals reachable :)
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@plddre79 (161)
• United States
19 May 09
vivianchen! many people associate success with the attainment of fame, fortune, or power. but are these things the measure of real success? i'm inclined to believe the following 'six keys to personal success are: 1) keep money in its place. 2) cultivate a generous disposition. 3) forgive freely. 4) comply with god's standards. 5) show unselfish love. 6) be conscious of your spiritual need. others: choose friends wisely, avoid excesses, do no seek vengeance, work hard, apply the golden rule, control your tongue and above all, have a wholesome fear of god.
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• China
21 May 09
Hi Plddre, Thanks for responding my discussion and thank you for your idea too. It seems to me there are lots of keypoints to be meant success, the quesiton is, how many of them we can achieve and stick to it?
@asherem2 (257)
• Thailand
19 May 09
myLot friend the key to success is not about the abundance of our possessions or the greatness of our reputation, but of who we are in Christ! the only measurement of true success is whether you have live your life - to the fullest - that you have become a channel of blessings to people around you... that's success myLotting friends! Carpe Diem!
• China
21 May 09
Hi Asherem. Thanks for responding my dicussion. But i don't see your point. Sorry.
@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
20 May 09
my definition of success is any achievement or progress made on something, no matter how small the achievement may look, it is definitely a successful step towards achieving higher levels and gaining more grounds in a particular situation,career or step. success does not necessarily mean more money in your pockets or more cars in your garage
@lvyanyan (42)
• China
20 May 09
as far as i am concerned, success means a lot to me! doing one thing with hard work and the result make everyone happy, get honor and respect from my peers, actually success do not indacate finishing something successfully, if the process makes eneryone happy, i think it is a success!
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@cainam (493)
• Philippines
20 May 09
I will consider myself if i already have the job i really wanted, my own family, a house and a car.. i don't want to be rich because rich people got so many problems than those who don't.
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@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Success for me is being happy with whatever I have attained in life. I don't define success in terms of how much money I have or how high my position is in my job. What matters is that I am going in the direction that I want.
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@queennee (186)
• Philippines
20 May 09
hi vivianchen,success for me is when all you wanted in life comes to reality.being contented and happy of what i have and become as a person is also called a success for me..:) good day!
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• India
20 May 09
As you told that success is to grow, to experienced new things, yes even I agree with that. But when there is a failure there is a sucess behind it. It is only through failure, we achieve success.
@chraiz05 (20)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Success is something that you have achieved in life not by having a lots of money. But it is having a success with all your heart in which you have sacrificed, hard work and being happy on what you do.
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