A pretty girl you cant stand or an adorable ugly girl ?

@ronnyb (6125)
Jamaica
May 20, 2009 12:57pm CST
I mean she is so pretty when she walks down the street heads turn and jaws drop but for some strange reason she is annoying and when you are together there are always fireworks (and not the good kind)The thing though she is selfish and pompous and is rarely mindful of others feelings.As a matter of fact she seems convinced that the world exists to cater to her needs. On the flip side to that is a woman who will do anything,bend over backwards to accomodate you,go the extra mile to make sure you are ok but she is "butt ugly" at least by popular opinion .I mean she walks down the street and she could easily be mistaken for a man and an ugly man at that . What do you do,do you go with the pretty one and hope that she grows to love you or go with the one who loves you and hope that you grow to love her?.
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@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
21 May 09
You clearly don't like the pretty one because of her undesirable personality and you don't sound too keen on the other one because you have described her as 'butt ugly' although I am sure she is a far more valuable human being than her pretty counterpart. The beautiful one annoys and are you attracted enough to the less attractive one to get to know her? If not I would look elsewhere.
@ronnyb (6125)
• Jamaica
21 May 09
Thank you for your insight ,even though i was really speaking hypothetically and was trying to get insight into the rules of attraction.Personally I dont know which I would choose as the ugly may be a turn off initially but may grow on you and I think I may be able to overlook her lack of looks.I just know that I dont think i could stand the pretty girl though ,but then who knows
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@o0jopak0o (6408)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
personality is really what i like and looks are just an addition. But i don't like the needy kind. So none for me
• United States
20 May 09
I wouldn't pick neither. the pretty one is too selfish and the "ugly" one is a little too needy and besides the way you describe her means you don't want her.I you want to know what I would do if this had happened to me, I would tell off mr selfish.He may be a dream to look at but he isn't worth the time of day.And if a guy that I find ugly,I rathr say he doesn't turn me on,I woulud tell him so, gently .He deserves to be with a woman who Wants him , body and soul, All I could ever be is a friend But since he Wants me, remaining friends wouldn't be right.