do you think it is wrong to see or talk to your ex when you are taken???

@SuzanaD (126)
United States
May 21, 2009 1:23am CST
I dont think it is wrong if you dont do anything wrong. My bfs are always so jealous and they always bother me about stuff like that. I think it is because they aren't mature.
2 responses
@sharksfin (1098)
• Philippines
28 May 09
Never wrong to see or talk to one's ex when one is in a relationship. But, it's neither right, too. I'd rather say, it is not wise to do so because whatever you say, it can cause jealousy. In the first place, why do you need to see or talk to your ex? Are you trying to rekindle feelings? Even if for you it's nothing malicious, what about for your ex? You can't blame your present boyfriend if he'd be angry. Try putting yourself in his shoes.
@beamsey (427)
• Philippines
21 May 09
I'm friends with my exes and though my partner isn't totally okay with it, I just make sure that assurance is plenty. There's really nothing wrong if everything is innocent and friendly between you and your ex. But also take into consideration how your boyfriend feels about all this. He's the one you're with after all. It's not so much that they're immature. A lot of people prefer their current boy/girlfriend to not be friends with their exes. It could be that he has had previous experiences with exes or something. Just make sure to give your boyfriend plenty of assurance and make sure that you don't do anything that could drive him crazy and ruin his trust in you. :)