At this modern times, which one suits best, with bells or no bells?

Philippines
May 21, 2009 5:58am CST
Nowadays, lots and lots of couples parted ways upon discovering indifferences with their partners....Statistics show majority are having difficulties adjusting to the first stages of a married life.In cases like this, would you suggest a live-in scheme first before embarking into marriage?
2 responses
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
21 May 09
nowadays, live-ins are a common site and set-up. teenagers would like to know more about his/her partner by live-ins. i am not against of it as long as they know the extent of their present relationship. marriage life is not easy, i think that it is the biggest decision an individual face in a lifetime. so many things are meant to be considered and that includes your partner.
@chillpill90 (1936)
21 May 09
i think you cant generalise i think it depends on the two people. You could generalise about it but then if it happened to you it might be completely different. I think that its a good idea to live together first but it cant and shouldnt be used as a substitute for marriage as marriage is seen as a legally binding commitment which shows your undying love for your partner as you agree to them having access to your stuff and it shows you have nothing to hide.