Will you ever invite your ex to your wedding ?

Philippines
May 21, 2009 8:22am CST
Hey you guys, I am back. I must admit, I miss mylotting... *sigh Just a thought, although I am not really planning of walking down the aisle but I was thinking should you or would you invite your ex to your wedding or it would be unethical to do so. I would love to hear from you...
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• United States
21 May 09
I invited hardly anyone to my wedding! Just a couple of friends and my immediate family. There was less than 20 people there total! Even if I did have a big wedding, I would not have invited my ex. I am not friends with any of them. So it would be stupid to invite them! If you are still friends with an ex, I dont see it as a problem to invite them. They always have to choice to decline the invitation!
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• Philippines
21 May 09
wow 20... hmmm. well I guess. but in my state of job I can;t keep a wedding that much of a secret LOL... i guess 20 is a little bit impossible for me LOL . Thanks for the post
• United States
21 May 09
My wedding wasnt a secret. I just didnt invite much of anyone. It also helped that we planned it quickly. We were engaged and married within 3 weeks. So no one from out of town even had the chance! Your wedding is your day. You can do whatever you want with it, no matter what other people say. It doesnt matter what they think or want because it has nothing to do with them!
@harryt123 (327)
• United States
21 May 09
I think in an occasion such as my wedding I would not invite my ex because that would make an awkward situation turn into worse. As far as my ex we hardly talk and with her seeing me marrying someone else would not be a good idea in my opinion so I would just leave her out of the whole occasion. I am most likely going to invite close family and friends and not everyone under the sun because I want to keep the occasion as memorable as I possibly can for both me and my would-be wife. :)
• Philippines
21 May 09
haha... practical as well right?
@chayen (90)
• Philippines
21 May 09
i would invite all of my ex because all of my ex are now my friends too. it would be unethical for me not to invite them. Even if you had some problems with your ex after the break up, i still think that they still deserve to got your invitation, its their choice to decide to come or not.
• Philippines
21 May 09
really lucky you...LOL
@amoyube1980 (2233)
• Somalia
21 May 09
I guess it will depend on what the current situation is with the ex. If after we've stopped dating each other and became friends instead then I probably would, but if we 'parted' friends or simply parted, I wouldn't even think about doing it. hehe!
@dpk262006 (53690)
• Delhi, India
21 May 09
Hello! asian! I would not take the risk of inviting my ex in my wedding, I would not like to spoil the party because of her unwelcomed presence. I would not prefer to invite her to my wedding.