What about your undies,whose choice matters, yours or ur partner's ?

@aweins (4199)
India
May 21, 2009 2:41pm CST
do you wear your under garments according to the choice of your partner or your own? what is your fav color and brand in under garments? do you really think that brand matters ? i think the comfort matters and that is the most important thing for me atleast. do you wear dark colored ones. i wear light color undies and i like light shades more than black or brown. i like red ofcourse and i love to wear matching my clothes. how about you ? i dont wear thongs . i am not comfortable in it. and now i dont even have the figure to flaunt also so i dont even wear bikini. after pregnancy my shape is all gone.
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9 responses
@smacksman (6053)
22 May 09
I wear M&S white Y-fronts because they give me plenty of support. Boxer shorts are too loose and let the 'wedding tackle' flail about which can be painful if I'm being energetic. Bit like you girls and your bras, really.
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@aweins (4199)
• India
22 May 09
lol, i love your response. my gosh!! really i just cant handle loose bras. they give such a bad feel.
22 May 09
Totally a bit of both, I like to feel nice for my partner but I also like to feel nice for me. I like to be comfy and therefore I wear comfy undies even if sometimes they are not all that flattering. There are certain times though when I think I should wear matching and I do make an effort. I dont think the brand matters as long as they are nice and I think my partner would rather I spent £5 on undies rather than £50.
@aweins (4199)
• India
22 May 09
your response is very sensible and ithink you are very sensiblethat you dont spend too much on things that are not to be seen by the world and are more into comfort. thanks for the response dear. i too like to wear things that are more comfortable rather than the branded ones.
22 May 09
Haha I'm like a child when it comes to underwear. I love crazy colours. I always wear trunks(like boxer shorts but tight). Becuase they are supportive and comfy :) I usually get all my underwear at Topman or H&M And my partner does the same :P
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@aweins (4199)
• India
22 May 09
so what everyone has a different choice. i am a mother of fifteen month oldie and i like floral colors light shades and a variety in undies . yaa, i know trunks my hubby has two three trunks also. he is also having a vasriety of undies but now he rarely wear briefs. i dont even like briefs . i like boxers more and tight fitted look cool.
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
21 May 09
When it's just for everyday then it's my choice all the way but if it's for lingerie then I definitely value his opinion. For everyday I like simple cotton or lace thongs and g-strings for under dress pants and I love hipster style panties for under jeans or other pants where I don't have to worry about a panty line. If I'm buying something that probably wont ever make it out of the bedroom I like to let my husband pick it because if it's just for 'dress up' then it's really just for him!
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@aweins (4199)
• India
22 May 09
wow!! thats a nice response thanks for it.
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
21 May 09
i wear my undergarments according to my choice. my partner has no say in it... in fact he says, why do women bother wearing those with designs and looking for nice undies when it's inside, nobody will see it when you're going out because your clothes covers it... i have no favorite brands, as long as it is comfortable to wear, i'll wear it. i have different colors here, lights, darks (for those days... you know...), lace, cotton, whatever fits my mood. i do have a thong... lol... well i just want to know how it feels... and its really not comfortable, but i still wear it (in the evening when going to sleep sometimes) because it would be a waste not to wear something i spent money on .
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@aweins (4199)
• India
22 May 09
i think your man is just like my man. one day we went out and sister who came to meet us on our baby's first birthday, we went for a shopping with her. she took some really fancy and laced , different colored undies . when we were doing the shopping my hubby came to me and ssaid why is she buying all this so fancy . do these really matters. i said that that she is still not married, she must be having some fantasies and likings for certain things. i am married so it is all different case. i believe in comfort and i buy according to it.
• United States
22 May 09
I wear whatever I feal comfortable in and not according to my husbands choice. My favorite color is black but I have light colored ones well actually my drawer is like a crayola box I have all the colores. The brands do not matters to me all I care is that they are comfortable. But in my case I have two kids and I don't have a great figure but I like thongs, to me they are more comfortable and I also like the undies that look like shorts and I really don't like the regular undies.
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@aweins (4199)
• India
22 May 09
you mean bloomers or something like that. i too have have a kidoo, so i know that the shape or the figure is difficult to maintain. but i dont wear thongs. i am not comfortable in them and i dont even go for just brands. i see my comfort becaaause that matters to me more.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
21 May 09
I hear you. I just had a baby 5 months ago. My second, and last. I am struggling to get some semblance of my shape back. As far as undies, it's my choice. I have to wear them. I have to be comfy. My hubby will deal.
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@aweins (4199)
• India
22 May 09
hi dear friend, yaa i know how you must be feeling. after pregnancy the size of the body is all big and then the size of the undies also changes. i also wear according to my comfort and my hubby never says anything in that. thanks for your response.
• United States
22 May 09
Well its my chioce to what i wear not my partners considering im the one wearing it and not him. Kinda be funny seeing him in a thong though LOL...But I do wear thongs sometimes depending on what i wear...If i wear pants or shorts with no back pockets i'll wear a thong just go you cant see lines. And most of all if im wearing ANY type of white pants,shorts etc.. i will wear a long. It would be VERY tacky and not a good thing to wear something other than a thong when wearing Whtie lol dont want to see lines. Of course im only 22 and have 2 children so after my 2 children i wear whatever is comfortable to myself not someone else.
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@turones (206)
• Philippines
25 May 09
i don't really care about the color or style as long as it fits me perfectly. i like it when my husband buys some clothes for me especially undergarments. he's a big man and i just can't imagine him going through some clothes for women. i am skinny so he must search for clothes with a small size. i can picture the look on the saleslady's and other customers' faces. :)
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