Why are you still single right now?

Philippines
May 21, 2009 8:53pm CST
Post in you comments and tell us why? :)
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15 responses
• United States
22 May 09
I'm single because I want time, time to develop myself into more of the person I want to be without trying to be something or anything for someone else. It's too confusing, and hard on them... at least it has been in the past. Better to discover the truth about myself and grow in the direction that I chose then when I'm ready I'll step into the room and see who walks by.
@tdemex (3547)
• United States
27 May 09
I'm single because I've gotten divorced 3 times! Now just living with a gal for 9 years now!
• United States
27 Jun 09
I am single because there doesn't seem to be any decent man my age who actually wants a relationship. I am tired of the head games. Most guys I know all they care about is their selfish needs.
@mama_bear (1124)
• Canada
2 Jun 09
well i am single because at present i just cannot invest the time into a real relationship. i think that i am way too lazy for that and it would not be fair to anyone for me to date them when i have this present frame of mind. i also came out of a very long-term relationship and i broke up with the person, not because of bad issues between us or because the love ended. we had to break up because of the geography we live on different continents now. if not for that we would still be together, so again whilst we are harboring certain feelings for each other it would not be fair to anyone to get involved with them, until those feelings are resolved.
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
27 May 09
I'm single because I choose to be! For years I thought having boyfriends and getting married was the way to go. After having nothing but bad relationships, I decided no more! I don't want to date or fall in love again! Those things are not for me! I need my life to be simple! Having no one in my life makes my life better! Less worries and more time for myself! I also love it! I was meant to be single!
@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
27 May 09
Well right at this time I am single because my ex boyfriend told me a few months back that he didnt want to be with me because I didnt have a job...and I think I am going to stay single for a while.
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
27 May 09
I am still right now, for a very simple reason that nobody is interested. There's this guy that I like so much but seems not interested with me and his attention is preoccupied somewhere. I don't want to be with a man who is not my type. That's why I am still horribly single right now.
@agv0419 (3029)
• Philippines
26 May 09
I stay single because no one gonna courts me since no one come into my life I think is my fate to be single all of my life. For now although it is sad to be alone I'm getting used to it. I think if love means for me it really means for me so I don't find it. I'm still hoping that someday I gonna find the guy who really means for me but if it's not I accept my fate to be single forever.
@sachu_46 (15)
• India
26 May 09
im single because first i want to settle in life then seek out for relationship as for now im studying and want to concentrate and excel in my studies get a good job look after my parents.... they say if get comitted you need lots of time for it and im scared whether i go down in my academics !
@amiee32 (30)
• United States
26 May 09
I am single by choice. I have recently gotten out of a bad relationship and am enjoy the single life. I dont know if I am ready to enter into another relastion ship until I get over the fear of men. My ex has given a fear of men that will take me awhile to get over but I don't plan on staying single forever.
@lampar (7597)
• United States
23 May 09
It's because all my marriage proposals are being turn down by all my girl friends, that is the main reason why i'm still single.
@jeiay41 (675)
• United States
23 May 09
I'm single because of one thing, i hate lies. In my past relationship, i lost my life when my partner lie to me. Single lie but lethal break our relationship in one single stroke. Now that im single again, Im glad that i can rebuilt myself to what i want to be. Being single also is a challenge to me to become a better person and be my ideal imagine to be. But im not preferring to be single for life, just as you though.
@amylan (191)
• France
23 May 09
Well i'm STILL(interesting way of asking) single 'cause i love somebody who's never gonna love me back and I know it very well, so why should i bother to pursue any so-called relationships with others, as love is something that grows inside my heart and i'm not gonna kill it :-)
• China
22 May 09
i am single now ,but i will get married soon. in fact i am not prepared for it, but parents always think it's time for u to get married, ya, i finally will get married, so why not now~~~
• Philippines
22 May 09
The reason why I'm single is because I love being one. :) I've been single for almost five years and I'm loving it. Guess because I have many goals and priorities in life and I put my family first before boys.. They distract me from my focus and studies that's why as much as possible I stay away from guys who shows motives ;) I had my first boyfriend then and never attempted to give others a chance hehehe. I guess I wanted to make sure that my family is okay and I've met the right person before getting into a relationship again because I really wanted my next relationship to go down the aisle. :)
@modstar (9610)
• Philippines
22 May 09
Well i'm single right now because i broke up with my girlfriend. I'm single for more than a year now. I'm still looking for potential girlfriend. Someone whom i can keep forever because i'm tired of girlfriends who come and go. I want someone who i can be with for the rest of my life and build a future.