why does it hurts so much, when you lost the one you love?

Philippines
May 24, 2009 5:25am CST
I still remember the times when i first met my puppy love, young love, and first love. Moments i spent with them are really unforgettable. Sweet and sad memories helps build my emotion. But why does it hurts so much when you lost the one you love?
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• Malaysia
24 May 09
Because you love them of course. That is the main reason. Yes, the moment you lost them you'll like the world is going to end, that is normal..But you can't let it haunt you forever right. It only the matter of time that help you to get over it. There's more to life after a failure. It build you stronger to move on.
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• Philippines
25 May 09
Yes, you're right. It's just that it really hurts when you lost the one you love and you can't help to avoid it. But there's one thing that is for sure, the pain is temporary, we just don't know when it will be gone. The deeper the heartaches i think the longer it will go. Have you experience losing someone you love? How did you go over it?
• Malaysia
25 May 09
Yes, I lost someone that I love once. In fact I let him go because I know our relationship will not make it. It took me about less than 2 years to completely get over him. The moment I let him go, I cried, regretted it and cried again and again til my eyes sore. But as times goes by I just get tired of thinking about him coz its not worth it. So I just move on and years after that I found someone new which is great. lol..
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• Philippines
26 May 09
Congratulations for overcoming the pain of being brokenhearted. It's really hard to go over it, in fact some people tried to end their lives because they don't know how to handle such pain. It's really painful isn't? More pain in the beginning but as time goes by little by little pain goes out with the help of your relatives, friends, classmates, teachers, and most especially oneself. No matter how large number of people helps us, it's useless if we ourselves doesn't put an effort to help oneself. And let's not forget our God above.Through prayer, we can communicate with him, his just prayer away, and what's good news in it, IT'S FOR FREE.
@dodo19 (31996)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
24 May 09
Because you love the person that you lost. That's really the reason that it hurts so much to lose someone that you love. It's something that it's very natural. It's natural that you might feel this way, in my opinion.
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• Philippines
25 May 09
I agree with your opinion. It's just that, the pain is unstoppable, you can't help it, but undergo with the process of being hurt. This is another kind of natural thing that everybody i think have to experience to learn, to grow and be matured enough to face this huge world. Have you been in this moment of being hurt? If you do, how did you manage it?
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
uhhhmmm... how old are you now? if you're matured already, i think you should already be laughing about your past lovers except for the recent ones... for me it hurts because when we came to encounter the word "end" it would mean that it's over and it's goodbye. we became so attached with let say a person that when he/she lefts you begin to realize that it's already hard to continue a life without him. aside from that starting over again isn't an easy thing to do especially when you don't want it but you still have to. so, for me, that's the reason why it hurts. try not to keep on reminiscing the past, it will help you... :)
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