Being pregnant or make pregnant , with the one you love or not ?

@aweins (4203)
India
May 25, 2009 12:19pm CST
Do you like to be pregnant with the same person whom you love. boys a re also welcome to answer becasue i wanna know that do they wanna have child with the same girl whom they love or for that you wanna someone different? if yes, why and if no also , why? after how many months in a relationship do you think of becoming a parent? it is a big commitment but it matters a lot and now because i am a parent myself i think it is a full time job. it is difficult also. baby sitting is a difficult task to do.
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3 responses
• China
26 May 09
In my opinion,being pregnant or make pregnant must with the one you love.I donot know why happening the problem that pregnant with someone else.If happen this problem, that may be very sorrinessly for the boy. It is an seriously question of morality. Love means everything,love means that one should responsible for the othe one. Love the girl and marry she, then make pregnant with she, that is the beautiful,satisfactory ,and the only one result for the love!!
@Beertjie (978)
• South Africa
25 May 09
I can't see why anyone would want to have a child with someone elso than their spouse. The child in the marraige is a special bond between husband and wife. If both husband and wife is competent, nothing wrong with thei biological works, then why get a child with someone else. If for some reason they can't get pregnant, then there are other means to help. One should be commited to the one you love, that is what love is all about. You live for one another and if you want a family, then you start that family out if love for one another. Blessings
@meandmy3 (2228)
• United States
25 May 09
I only want to have children with my husband, I have no desire to be with anyone else other than him. I do not think that anyone should RUSH into becoming a parent, it is not like you can take the child back to the hospital when the novelity wears off and get a refund. It is a lifetime commitment and one that you should enter into as a couple, both of you making the decision together to bring a life into this world. When you have a child you are bounded with the person that you had it with for life. You will always be a part of their life in some way shape or form, yes even if you never marry, you are still parents of the same child together and that will never change. It really amazes me how many people go into parenthood without much thought and just think it is no big deal, it is a big deal, it is a huge responsibility and not one you should take lightly. And it is so much different than baby sitting, you do not baby sit your own child.