How do you think of a woman with a career?

China
May 25, 2009 8:24pm CST
Some men hold the idea that they won't marry career women. Some men think professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat and less likely to have children. And if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it. So they think you run a high risk of having a rocky marriage. How do you think of this question?
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@turones (206)
• Philippines
26 May 09
yes, some men could get intimidated by career women but for me, i admire those women. in these times, women should also help their spouse in earning a living to give their family everything they need or give their children a better future. of course there are some women who are exactly like you described but not all. i still believe that the main duty of a woman is to have children and take care of her family.
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• China
26 May 09
Yes, career women are admirable in some aspects. But for them it would be difficult to give excellent performance in their career if they take their main duty to take care of children and her family. The problem is how to make a good balance between her career and her family for a career woman.
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• Philippines
26 May 09
I always believe that a woman can have it all - if she goes after it.I know career women who have a balanced career and family life.it's all about setting priorities and time management.if I'm a guy,I find a balanced woman hot.I'm a girl, and I find guys who are financially and professionally successful interesting,but I'll be crazy about him if he has a successful life outside of work (goes out with friends,has hobbies,etc.).
• China
26 May 09
I always think what a man wants most from a woman is her tenderness, caring, mental support and understanding. And what a woman wants most from a man is that she can always come to him for reliance, generous tolerance, looking for sense of security.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
26 May 09
women having a career doesn't really mean that the more divorce capacity to happen increases... having a child with the husband won't also be an issue as well and cheating? well it really depends on the personality that woman have. nowadays, both parents should be worker for the future of those having children since we know that we are experiencing global crisis. it is just a matter of trying to give more time and effort to the husband and kids itself. about career women not having a child, well it also takes time to become a fully prepared parent right. what if you are at the height of your work load right and the intent of trying to save for the future. readiness is what is most important when beginning a family.. well this just a point of view coming from me. take care and God bless!