Why do you think that a person who are divorced are afraid to marry again?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
May 26, 2009 1:46am CST
Need help changing your mind, moving from fear of aloneness to knowing you are meant to be connected and loved? Are you afraid to be commitment again? or you are afraid to be alone? To much years, alone, and now is hard to marry again? Afraid to failed again?Are you afraid that people will judge you? People judge other people if they are alone, and judge too, if they try to marry again after a divorce, Do you really care what people say?
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• Canada
26 May 09
I now of people who were in really bad marriages, who are really scared of making the same mistake again. My husband was married and divorced three times before he met me. I, on the other hand, had never been married before. It was an interesting experience. What made it work for us was that at the time of our meeting neither one of us was interested in marriage AT ALL, and we were only looking to be friends, Because of this lack of interest, our relationship, and romance were completely natura. No pressure at all. We fell in love totally naturally. One day he just said that he was ready to get married again, and that he wanted to marry me. I also knew by then that he was the right person for me. We've been married almost two years now, and things coudln't be better.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
26 May 09
You was lucky to find somebody who have a lot of patient with you, or maybe you had patient, and let relation grow natural...is the best....when somebody want to marry, and this is his goal, he will look after marriage, nothing more...and in this case, he will try to find a wife not a person
@msBetty (83)
• Philippines
28 May 09
I believe that they were not afraid, just simply not finding the right person to be with. Or just being extra careful and learned their lessons well. Its not everyday that we meet a person who has the magic to make us fall in love again.