will you marry for convenience?
By ckyera
@ckyera (17332)
Philippines
May 27, 2009 6:04am CST
i'm just curious about it if there are really people who marries just for convenience.
they marry somebody who can give them better life even if they don't really love them... some say that they can put aside love just to secure their future..and that love can be learned eventually.
what can you say about this? will you do such things?
thanks & have a nice day! :-)
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5 responses
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
27 May 09
hi ckyera, I marry a person for I love him and he is the especial person God has given me. But i have this friend of mine who is too wise, she married her husband because among her admirer this guy is the most stable in terms of financial. He has bigg house and a lot of money in the bank. Even though he is too old for my friend yet she choose her for according to her she wants to have a better future. I am not sure if my friend is happy about her descisions but I hope she has the better choice according to her you cannot eat love.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
28 May 09
hello ma'am! i agree, we cannot eat love, coz empty stomach can lead to fights between husbands/wife and sometimes tend to forget the love they feel...(for a while)
its not a problem if we marry somebody who is older than us as long as we have feelings for this guy. your friend is really wise and i hope that she is happy.
i also marry a man that i love, good thing even if we're not rich he is a good provider atleast and a good man really. but there are times you know, as a human i come to think that maybe if i didn't marry this man i can be richer! lol..but i'm not sure if i can be as happy as i am now...
have a nice day ma'am! :-)
@youngloc (36)
• United States
27 May 09
that person is going to eventually catch on that they are more of a convenience to them and not as much loved. divorces on divorce court dont look to fun i wouldnt marry for convenience thats misleading for the both of ya what are you going to do when that convenience runs out...whats left fake love
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
27 May 09
Hello,Yera! People don't marry for their convenience only but for meeting the biological needs as well.It meets the natural needs.thanx.
@joanzz (174)
• Philippines
27 May 09
Yeah! It's true that some people marry somebody who can give them better life even without love. But, for me I don't want to marry a person for convenience. I would like to marry to whom I really love most. Because, for me love is very important to a marriage. And true love is your true happiness.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
27 May 09
I prefer to marry a person who really loves me and can take good care of me. I choose to marry my husband because he can really take care of me very well. I think it's not wise to marry for the sake of securing a stable future. What happen when that guy you're marrying suddenly become bankcrupt? He can't provide you a secure future anymore? Then, you are going to find another guy just for the sake of your future again? That's totally, unwise decision..
