I met an accident today and i thought its my last day...
@charlenmendoza (922)
Philippines
May 27, 2009 9:21pm CST
I was on my way to work, around 5:15am when a car hit the cab im riding. Its was so fast, the driver was trying to avoid the other car so we hit a post. I have swollen face and 2 legs, both drivers are ok. I had my check up already, they xray all my body parts, and everything is ok. During the time that it was happening, all i was thinking is that i havent done everything i need to finish. I still owe some people and i have to pay them. Im thinking about my family. So now that i have this 2nd life, i will start enjoying my life and treasure it. Treasure every minute that im breathing.
I also want to share this because i just want to release my emotions, after the check up, my officemate and i go back to the office since nothing is wrong to me so no need for me to rest. I called my boyfriend because he was waiting for me, we talked in the net. And the saddest part, he didnt care about what happen to me, instead he asked why i have account on TAGGED. He asked me if im looking for another man. I was trying to explain to him that everybody have account in friendster, facebook Tagged and all social networking site. he though that this site is a online dating or looking for relationship. Im tired of his jealousy and his selfishness.
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11 responses
@x_revenge (284)
• Greece
5 Jun 09
Good thing you are ok, try to find time to do the stuff you were thinking about when you thought you might die, its best to die with no regrets, whatever you think is best and you have to do before you die, do it. That was really inconsiderate behaviour from your boyfriend, though, I hope things are going well between you too and you're ok.
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
thank GOD that im really ok. thank you also for the nice words. right now im ok and my health is ok. no damage done. now what my goals is to experience life to the fullest. do whatever i want to do. i have lots of plan and i hope i may able to do it this year.
@ip5217 (1655)
• Philippines
29 May 09
Thank God to that second life He gave you. Sometimes, when I ponder on things like this it makes me feel depress. I don't want to die through an accident. That's very surprising, everyone's not prepared. The message this reminds everyone is that we should live our lives to the fullest. It won't hurt if we let someone know that we love them, thank our parents, do good things, take care of our lifestyle, everything good (both for our body and soul) because we can't tell what tomorrow brings.
With regard to your boyfriend, maybe when he knew that it wasn't really serious then he started nagging. If that's his attitude then you can start thinking twice about him, is he really the one for you?
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
29 May 09
yes we should live our life to the fullest. We should work our life 100%. No ifs no buts, as long as your happy and your not committing any sins and you didnt hurt anybody, then do whatever you want to do. Thats what i learned yesterday. I will start showing what i feel toward other people who are dear to me. And forgive myself and the people who hurt me and ask forgiveness to i hurted. And i will start associating myself to positive and successful people.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
28 May 09
Sorry about the accident. Could have been worse. Seems like your boyfriend could have been more concerned. That must have hurt. He sounds a bit insecure. I hope things work out.
@cahyorini (315)
• Indonesia
28 May 09
First of all, I am so sorry about the accident you have, thanks god you okay, and the 2nd how very selfish and jealousy boyfriend you have (sigh..!), if i were you i will slam his face in front of people, he should ask your condition and worry about you, not asking stupid question that really not important to discuss in the middle of what you have been through. Most of all I am glad you okay. Happy myloting my friend
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
28 May 09
thank you. yes i thank god for my second chance and i thank God that i have this my lot and my new found friend here. At least somebody that i really dont know care for me.
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Just think that God has given you another chance to get to know Him better and to look unto things which is important, and that is your eternal life. In Ephesians 2:8-9 says For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God not by works, so that no one can boast.
About your bf, is he foreigner? anyway if he was more concerned about being jealous and not understanding how you feel, you better think again if he is the right person of whom you want to spend with for the rest of your life.
Anyway i hope you are doing fine right now. Even if it is traumatic, you have learned a lesson about it. That we don't hold our own life. We all have time and it is ticking every single moment. Seek God and Ask Him about the things He wanted you to do to glorify Him. Be thankful always.
@always_natalia (444)
• Indonesia
28 May 09
Dear Charlen, I'm sorry to hear about the accident you had, but I'm glad you are alright. I think you should forget your boyfriend for awhile, let him live with his own jealousy. The most important thing now is for you to get some rest and healed from your shock as well as your swollen face and legs. Trust me, there are still many other better men out there who would care about you and be on your side to comfort you when you need him most.
@biggerb (2024)
• India
28 May 09
Sorry to hear about your accident.Anyway the good news is that you are fine and are in real shock trying to pick up from where you stopped.I am glad you chose to pour out your heart and I am sure by doing so you will surely feel alot better.Sometimes I think by giving us a jerk God tries to remind us of the many things we have taken for granted.There is no way way to happiness, HAPPINESS IS THE WAY.So treasure every moment you have and remember that time waits for no one.There is a purpose to one's life's events, to teach you how to to laugh more or not to cry too hard.You can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.So take it easy and enjoy your second lease of life.Blessings.All the best to you.
@angellyril (249)
• Philippines
28 May 09
I am really sorry to hear that from you, and I'm very much pleased that your safe and okay... anyway, we really have to enjoy our life.. of course in a nice way, just thank the Lord from up above for giving you that 2nd life.. :) happy mylotting and may God guide you always...
@k4karthik (439)
• India
28 May 09
You are really lucky. But over speeding is always not recommended. But even if we are parking and luck is not in our favor then also accident happens. Yesterday when i was coming from my office i stopped in an road signal. The public vehicle which was very next to me turned immediately right without checking right side. He was about to hit me but luckily we shouted and he stopped. Otherwise by this time i could have been there in heaven.
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
28 May 09
sorry to hear what you've been through but im really glad that you're ok... you were very fortunate nothing bad really happened to you. Thank God.
sorry to hear about your crappy bf. yeah that is really being selfish... i think its time you enjoy your life and if you feel like you're not happy with your current bf, then just let go of him. take your life easy, cherish every moment of it.
@UncleSamPatriot (20)
• Finland
28 May 09
God did give you another chance to be saved by letting you live, will you use it or reject it?
"James 4:14 Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away."
"Matthew 18:14 Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of these little ones should perish."
"Matthew 5:25 Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison."
"James 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God."
You are still a enemy but you can be made right with your adversary, the God's law which condemned you.
This page has more information: http://www.goodpersontest.com and a great and free Bible study for you: http://www.lvbaptist.org/261378.ihtml
