if you like her, how would you ask her to be your girlfriend?

United States
May 28, 2009 4:19am CST
So, I am with this girl for while, and we are always such a good friend. I have good feeling about her, but I don't know if she felt the same toward me. Since we have been in this friendship for while, I would like to take it to the next step. I would like to ask her to be my girlfriend. How should I approach her with this question?
2 responses
@beamsey (425)
• Philippines
28 May 09
Hmm.. I guess it depends on whether you're a romantic guy or not. In any case, here's a suggestion. While she's away, fill her room up with balloons. They're already blown-up of course. Leave one that isn't blown-up and write on it using a permanent marker. Write something like "My life would be as colorful as your room if you could be my girlfriend." or something as simple as "Will you be my girlfriend?" Scatter the blown-up balloons all over her room while she's out. Then wait for her to come home. Make sure she doesn't see you when she does. When she gets home and is in her room, go inside and pretend you're going to visit her. Have the balloon you haven't blown up yet. Say something like, "Oh, I forgot to blow up this one balloon." Then blow it up in front of her. She'll be surprised to see the message written on the balloon. Give it to her then hope she says yes. :) If you want to take her on a date before asking, have a member of her family help you do this or a mutual friend of yours. Give the balloons to your friend and ask him/her to scatter it all over her room while you guys are out. But keep the one balloon with writing in your pocket. I hope this helps. Goodluck! :)
@med889 (5958)
28 May 09
The best way to know this is to talk to her directly, why afraid of her deniance when you are not even sure if she might say yes also. So go for it and tell her all your true feeling in a unique style as Girls love that, they want difference so be yourself and offer the difference she is waiting for. Firstly: Talk to her and give her some hints from time to time about your sincere feelings for her. Secondly: If she reacts in a positve way then you can go for more details but if she is indifferent then she might be not interested at all. She might also be saying if she has something or someone else in mind. Thirdly: If you come to know that she has the same feelings for you then immediately do something fabulous but very natural for her. And if through her wordings you come to know that she has someone in mind already or is just denying your feelings then just be happy as you did not propose her. All the best and keep us updated.