running out

May 28, 2009 10:04pm CST
I was wondering if any of you people ever run out of things to say to your partner or if things are still going good? me and my fiance have been together over 5 months now and we still find things to talk about, most of the times its silly little things that just pop up and develope into a conversation. i like it that way =] i think we have the type of relationship were we will always have things to speak about, if that makes sense. what do you lot think?
4 responses
@ketybhagat (4125)
• India
29 May 09
You are just 5 months old in this relationship. Id like to know your thoughts when you are married for 10 years or more. Mostly after some years of marriage, because we are so much together, we run out of conversation. But if love is ther in the relationship, it survives. Its called companionable silence. After 21 years of marriage, we have this. We talk as much as needed, read books or watch tv and still the atmosphere is peaceful. Love and understanding brings a lot of peace and its not always found in conversation.
• United States
29 May 09
Congrats to you on 21 years! Rare thing to come by these days, you are truly blessed, so happy for you!
• India
29 May 09
Thank you dear. May you find the same love and happiness in your life, and a long and contented married life too. (With loads of conversation. lol)
• United States
29 May 09
Just a question but are you saying you've only known each other for 5 months altogether, and been engaged the same amount of time, or you have only been engaged for 5 months but known each other longer? If you've only known each other 5 months altogether, that's not that much time, not enough to run out of conversation anyways. I've felt the way you've felt before though, that never running out of things to speak about, for 15 months out of my last relationship, which was three years long, my ex and I wrote back and forth everyday. His co-workers always asked how it is we never ran out of things to talk about, how we kept it going, we decided when he left we wouldn't use technology we'd only write, we decided writing was a more intimate way of conversating it would keep us closer it did. We only recently broke up, but to this day we are still good friends, and talk at least two or three times a week. Just because the conversations never end, it doesn't mean your relationship won't. Our love is still there, we are still just growing as people though, just time for us to do him and me, versus we, for awhile.
29 May 09
well first of all, thank you for your response. we have only known each other for 5 months. i hope you and your ex are as happy alone as you were together =]
• United States
29 May 09
Well can't say I'm as happy apart, but it's more his choice to be apart than mine. But I am supportive of what he wants, I've always wanted him to be happy and I've always meant that, with or without me. You should never be happier apart from the one that you love, if it's real.
@ANTIQUELADY (36491)
• United States
29 May 09
i think that's great even tho that's not a very long time. keep the communication going i think that's very important in a realationship.
@med889 (5958)
29 May 09
We have been together for 3 years now and we are from difeerent fields in life and we got many and many things to say to each other at the end of the day, for example what I did in court, which case was where and how it was, and if says about his web design, his work and then we turn to talk about a bit of what are happening in the neighborhood, then we talk about ourselves, what we should do, when we should pay the bills, what will we do tomorrow, so there is always lots of conversation. And after all these we talk of what we will be doing the next moments before going to bed.