running out

You are just 5 months old in this relationship. Id like to know your thoughts when you are married for 10 years or more. Mostly after some years of marriage, because we are so much together, we run out of conversation. But if love is ther in the relationship, it survives. Its called companionable silence. After 21 years of marriage, we have this. We talk as much as needed, read books or watch tv and still the atmosphere is peaceful. Love and understanding brings a lot of peace and its not always found in conversation.

Just a question but are you saying you've only known each other for 5 months altogether, and been engaged the same amount of time, or you have only been engaged for 5 months but known each other longer? If you've only known each other 5 months altogether, that's not that much time, not enough to run out of conversation anyways. I've felt the way you've felt before though, that never running out of things to speak about, for 15 months out of my last relationship, which was three years long, my ex and I wrote back and forth everyday. His co-workers always asked how it is we never ran out of things to talk about, how we kept it going, we decided when he left we wouldn't use technology we'd only write, we decided writing was a more intimate way of conversating it would keep us closer it did. We only recently broke up, but to this day we are still good friends, and talk at least two or three times a week. Just because the conversations never end, it doesn't mean your relationship won't. Our love is still there, we are still just growing as people though, just time for us to do him and me, versus we, for awhile.

i think that's great even tho that's not a very long time. keep the communication going i think that's very important in a realationship.

We have been together for 3 years now and we are from difeerent fields in life and we got many and many things to say to each other at the end of the day, for example what I did in court, which case was where and how it was, and if says about his web design, his work and then we turn to talk about a bit of what are happening in the neighborhood, then we talk about ourselves, what we should do, when we should pay the bills, what will we do tomorrow, so there is always lots of conversation. And after all these we talk of what we will be doing the next moments before going to bed.