What makes a man lose interest in a woman?

Philippines
May 31, 2009 3:28am CST
What do you guys think?
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4 responses
• India
31 May 09
I think if the woman stops appreciating what a man does for her, he eventually loses interest in her. According to me, a man whether he is in a relationship or not, always tries to impress the woman. I mean to say, he always wants to show off how perfect he is. Not always but most of the times he has put in lots of efforts in a particular job that he does for his love. But sometimes (again not always) the woman fails to appreciate his doings because of stress or maybe some other important work. This makes a man feel neglected. And if the woman repeats this every time the man does anything for her, he starts thinking that it would make no difference if he did anything for her. So eventually, he stops doing things for her. And as you can see, he starts losing interest in her... Of course, this is my opinion and there may be some other reasons too. A very nice discussion...
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• Philippines
31 May 09
But does that mean girls have to please guys always? Thanks for the response :)
• India
31 May 09
No no, I don't mean that. I said, the girl just has to appreciate the guy, and guys are very happy. You know, if a girl says "wow, thats a great job you did..." a guy would feel great. He would feel his efforts are appreciated and he would want to do more...
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• Philippines
31 May 09
Ok thanks for the comment but I'll try to do this since I'm not really the showy or vocal type :)
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
31 May 09
Hi, i am woman but i ll try to say my opinion...man lose interest in a woman when he know other woman, and want change his partner. I don t want to say that all man are same, of course that people are different, and are man who want a woman for all life, as a woman like to have many partners or are very faithful. But man want all time change the woman, if see other woman, more beatiful or more intersting for what he want, he will change very easy his woman. No offence.
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• Philippines
31 May 09
Haha but maybe not all boys are like that ;) I still believe that somehow there are still some guys who's man enough for their girl. I hope you got my point. Although I haven't met that man yet I still believe because it worked for other girls too :)
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
31 May 09
I say that not all man are same...but in general, man like to change many partners.
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@wakinsey (141)
• United States
31 May 09
I would have to say communication problems. Guys have many fantasies about trying new things. Some women are open to that and some are not. In order to actually find out, both parties have to be willing to talk about it. When I say talk about it, I don't mean giving an automatic response of "no" or " I will never do that." If she says "no" he should try to find out why and continue the discussion. A lot of guys would react by saying "ok" when they are really not ok with it at all. This begins the second part of the problem. He begins to look for someone else to share that fantasy with.
• Philippines
31 May 09
Hmm.. Don't you think it's the guy's problem?
@Bradpete (822)
• Philippines
31 May 09
When a girl is so much naughty and irresponsible. And she is like an octopus dating or have relations with two or more men at a time is not good. Men don't like that things.
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• Philippines
31 May 09
So you go after a conservative type?