i want my first boyfriend to be also the last one.

@cainam (493)
Philippines
June 1, 2009 2:20am CST
i think that i'm being too idealistic but i can't entertain the idea of having an "ex-boyfriend".. i want tmy first boyfriend to be the last guy who will hold my hand and with whom i'll build my own family..i think it's possible. i'm now 25, i had my first boyfriend when i was 23 and we're still together now. it really sounds nice but do you think that this is realistic? any advantage may be?
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7 responses
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
it will really depend on the two of you.i have heard of some people who married their "firsts".I believe it is possible,as long as you love each other and grow together.it is much easier because you don't have to date a lot of guys to know who'll really make you happy.
• United States
6 Jun 09
I would like that as well. its hard to imagine yourself with anyone else but him.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
well one things for sure this one can really happened coz my sister married her first boyfriend they have the relationship for 10 years and after that long they decided to get married and now they are happy blessed with 1 son and another coming. I am not saying they dont encounter problems they do but they learn to over come it already for they know each other perfectly coz before they got married they where having a relationship in for 10 years that would let them know each other well.
@med889 (5941)
1 Jun 09
I am with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I have had boyfriend before him but it was only in college days or for 1 year or we were not very serious but even now I am not someone to be hoping that we will be together, I believe if two people work hard for a relationship and if BOTH are willing that the feelings they share stay between them forever then It is possible 100% to be together. To be together forever depend on 2 person who share the fabulous bond, they have to decide whether they want their relationship to grow or now. As for me I am fine with him he respect our relationship too so I think maturity and understanding is playing a great role in it.
• United States
1 Jun 09
Some people are fortunate enough to locate their life-long mate on the first try but it's really hard in this day and age. I sincerely wish you well.
• Cebu, Philippines
1 Jun 09
I have heard one or two couple in my life that their first boyfriend was the last man they ever had..and got married to. It's so nice to know that he's the first and the last, but of course you cannot deny the fact that you are being idealistic. But through constant prayers I know God will always bless your relationship. Just be honest to each other and know how to keep distance sometimes to give your partner a time for himself. Why? Because I believe that everyone of us needs space/ time to be alone to think and have some fun with other friends as well in order for us to grow up and learn how to balance everything. If you both know how to handle things then that's good for you both. ^_^ Just be happy and don't forget to smile and embrace the future.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Jun 09
Yes it can happen, I think it is lovely if that works out, when I think about all the tears I have shed over broken romances but I think now that I look back, it was all a learning experience..