. mad men and how to handle them

@BYOLA2871 (4373)
South Africa
June 3, 2009 12:48pm CST
Various report of violence against women have been reported over time and its becoming more disturbing in recent times. Most reported their partners commit violence against women so how then do you handle a man who is aggressive? The following will surely help when you are faced with an aggressive man: Talk and walk: when having an argument with an aggressive man it becomes threatnening, its best to remain calm and not rise to the bait. This is because people in an irrational state are not in there “thinking brain” but in a more adrenaline-driven fight or flight mode so it is often useless to try and make them rational. Punch time: always maintain a good distance from an aggressive fellow when the argument gets hot as he may resort to go physical with you. This helps you to take flight easily before things get out of hand. Remains Calm: never argue with a man with a weapon, this is the best decision you can take when faced with violence individual. Arguing with an aggressive fellow may result in a mess, so it’s a wise decision to remain silent and calm in a situation like this. I sure hope this few tips helps
2 responses
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
Thanks for your valuable tips. Actually I always keep a distance with people whom I really don't know especially men who look like goons or killer.lol!I mean I never talk to them and most of the time I never stay in a place without so much people. I always look at my safety all the time because mad men are everywhere.
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
4 Jun 09
yea h you sure make sense to think about safety but the funniest thing is that some of these guys never look dangerous rather they look like ordinary everyday people,so you cant realy tell if they arel like that but its necessary to watch out when we meet peopel because looks dot really tell what a person is
3 Jun 09
One of my ex's I always used to get a bit scared of when he got angry. He was never really violent towards me but was towards other people and was always fighting. How-ever one night we were in my local bar and he grabbed hold of my arm really tight and I told himt o let go but he ended up launching me down the stairs in front of loads of people. That was it, I never wnated to see him again and i never did!