what will you do if you fall in love with a person who spread sadness?

@amitnaik (471)
India
June 4, 2009 2:47am CST
Suppose you fall in love with a person who spreads sadness,depression,etc.. then what will you do? please give me reasons and be descriptive. Thanx.
2 responses
@abanerji (1026)
• India
4 Jun 09
i don't think anyone would like to spread sadness. still there are people who are melancholy. they are sad themselves and do not wish to be happy because they are not satisfied with their life. such people are unable to cope up with the poblems of their life. they don't know how to be happy and ultimately they cannot make others happy. this does not mean that they don't wish to be happy. the main problem is that they desire to happiness but cannot reach it, hence, the sadness adorns them. if i ever i have such a companion i would do everything to make the person happy. this does no mean that i would dance like joker in front of him. first i think i would try to understand the person, find out his actual problems and then find solutions to make the person happy. once the person is happy he would like to share his happiness. there is no exact way to change a person. undersatnding the person, supporting him and being with him would give solutions to tackle the problem.
@amitnaik (471)
• India
4 Jun 09
Thanx for your descriptive response!! i agree with you that anyone in this world can change himself/herself,all we need is understand the problems which they can't tackle themselves.
• India
4 Jun 09
First of all, no person is perfect. A person who is spreading sadness, is sad inside for various reasons. Maybe his upbringing was not good, maybe he was abused or maybe he never knew the meaning of keeping people happy. Life gives everybody a second chance, so if I did meet such a person, I would try and bring out the goodness from within him. If I fail after several efforts, I will understand that the person is inherently bad and give up all relations.
@amitnaik (471)
• India
4 Jun 09
I really appreciate it!! Thanx for your response!Its good that you will try to improve that person because i even know some people who would blindly leave them without trying at all.