Are you rude?

June 5, 2009 2:07pm CST
Would you consider yourself a rude person? I know that I can be rude, but if you are nice to me then I will be nice to you and if you are nasty to me.... you get the idea. Some people think that I am rude becuase I won't let people walk all over me anymore. But do you think you are rude?
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6 responses
@Jayrent (129)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Sometimes i consider myself i am rude, in a way that i speak whatever i want without considering someone's feeling. I tend to be honest and frandk and sometime si do not care i can hurt because of my word.
5 Jun 09
fair enough.
@Jayrent (129)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Thanks for that. Happy to hear from you. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
6 Jun 09
I am rude to one person only.I really don't like her and will never consider her a friend,so I go all the way and enjoy bashing her.she's a a pretentious girl who thinks she's better than me and everybody else.it's enough that I'm rude to her only.I don't have nice things to say about her,either.
6 Jun 09
At least you are honest!
@jacksbg7 (59)
• United States
5 Jun 09
I really don't consider myself a rude person. I believe in the saying, IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. So if I have something rude to say to someone, I just bite my tongue because that "rudeness" can really be used against you.
5 Jun 09
it can.
@dodo19 (33316)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
5 Jun 09
I really try not to be rude, as I'm really not fond of people, who are rude. People, who are rude, aren't the type of people that I like to spend time with, or simply be friends with.
5 Jun 09
me neither!
@whywiki (6070)
• Canada
5 Jun 09
I try not to be rude but sometimes it just happens. I always feel guilty afterwards and usually appologize. But sometimes it is the only way to go when people are rude to you first.
5 Jun 09
definitely!
@Sandra1952 (6052)
• Spain
5 Jun 09
There's a fundamental difference between being rude and assertive. If you won't be a doormat, you're assertive, not rude. It's the people who are trying to take advantage of you who are rude. Like you, I treat people as I want to be treated myself. If you're straight with me, I'll be straight with you. I look for good in everyone, but if I find bad, well, I can be just as bad in return. I don't think this is being rude; it's taking a stand for yourself.
5 Jun 09
thats what I thought!