How should you propose a girl? Plzzz give some tips!!!

India
June 7, 2009 4:08am CST
Hey MyLotters!! Need your help friends.. I am in love with a girl who has been my classmate. We converse on phone for 1-2 hours daily. I m nt sure that she has the same feeling for me. Please give some tips what should I do? How should I proceed??? Replies awaited !!
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• Philippines
7 Jun 09
no one can say if she's already falling in love w/ you too. only the girl can. it's normal to hide your feelings about them if you're worried that you'll be rejected but isn't it much harder to wait? what if she's waiting for you too and what if she don't feel the same feeling and just contented being your friend? don't waste time waiting, you're the guy, it's better you do the first move. why don't you give her some hints that you think she is much more than just a friend to you. then if the result is postive, try approaching the girl with dating each other[face to face communication] it's important coz it's a real thing conversation, it's the next step on phone conversation. think positive, youre already close friends theres a good chance that you guys would make a great couple. but if the girl just want to be friends, let her decission be respected. don't insist anymore so you wont ruin the friendship that molds both of you. always put this on your mind that "it's better to regret after you act than to regret after you don't do anything" the best thing to do, pray pray pray! coz "prayer can move mountains"!
• India
7 Jun 09
Thanks a lot brother! thanks..this gives a positive feeling..!
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 09
Just tell her the truth. Tell her about your feeling to her. It's good for you too. If you're still in thus uncertain relationship, i'm afraid it will hurt you later when you know the truth in case she doesn't love you. So it's better getting hurt now than later. This is just like gambling. You won't know the truth if you never ask her. But make sure that you're ready for further relationship. Good luck and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
• India
7 Jun 09
Very true! Its a Gamble!! I'll muster my strength to speak out my feelings to her. Thanks!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
7 Jun 09
Just go straight and spell those magic words,"I love you".That is the right thing to start with.Don't hesitate and waste time beating round the bush.Make things clear and she will appreciate your straight forwardness.Be bold to act.Cheers!
@1989622 (68)
• China
7 Jun 09
I think mybe she is also in a puzzle.Just tell her what's in your mind.
• India
7 Jun 09
That should help!! Brother, how should I go and tell her???!!!
• Australia
7 Jun 09
mate, i have been engaged three times, my advice....run!!! give your pork sword some self lovin and move on, lol. luckily none of these girls said no, but i learnt one had no intention of marrying me, and i know marriage scares me, so i doubt it will ever happen in my world.