hey, you would wish your partner're gone first or your own?which one better?

Malaysia
June 8, 2009 9:41am CST
hey did u all think such a question before?would u like u died first or ur partner died first? actually i think it before.. if i am the one who died first i will worry about his life, is it okay for him to be alone and live without me? however change the mind if my partner died first, how am i continue my life without him? and also miss him and cant live without him it is quite a confused question but if the role were you all, how would u all think?
2 responses
@glesil_00 (1147)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
I come to think of that lately, and if i choose who will gone first i like it that i will be the first. I don't know but i don't want to be alone without him. I am doubting that i maybe move on if he's gone first, but it is not that much happy and it is really sad for the few years.
@glesil_00 (1147)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
It did not come across my mind what if i gone first? what will happen to him or to the people i left. That's a good question. As i am answering it now. Well the thing i think is, is my partner gonna look for another partner, assumming that he is not old enough to be alone. I smy partner be sad for a long time and what he will do after i gone? Its odd but that is what i can say for now. Yes it is really sad because you already love each other and it is not very easy to just forget memories shared.
• Malaysia
9 Jun 09
u really an optimist...i admire ur character..ya there need to have a choice when it comes to us,and make us to choose ..live more years can see more of the things that happen in the world..i think it is the last i can give him to have a perfect life in the world...
@glesil_00 (1147)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
Thank you. This is great topic, we make us think about something that will about to happen and we do not know if it will be happen according to what we want or what we think. This is not really a real one, I mean, this is only what we are thinking, questions we have, and this will be answer in the future.
@Caylaxx (99)
9 Jun 09
It is a hard question but I would definatley prefer if I was to die first. There is no way I would be able to cope without my boyfriend and I wouldn't even want to imagine it. I would worry about whether he would be lonley or not and how he would cope but I just know that I wouldn't be able to live without him