A friendship virus

@meapas (2436)
India
June 8, 2009 9:20pm CST
This is a common virus found in many a friendships. BACKTALKING. How do you tackle this. I have my own way of tackling this and is found to be very effective.Have you ever come across this virus, if not, then I should say you are very lucky. If you have spotted this virus, how do you tackle this.
2 responses
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 09
I do not bother much if someone is complaining about me, when I am not present. I just cannot prevent his/her back biting and cannot do anything, like defending myself. I do not take it too seriously, when someone tells that the other fellow was back biting about me, baceause I know what I am and what is my real character.
meapas
@meapas (2436)
• India
9 Jun 09
True very much true. We know who we are, we dont need any one's certificate. As long as we have an impeccable character how does it matter. Thanks for your comment. meapas.
meapas
@meapas (2436)
• India
9 Jun 09
True very much true. When we have an impeccable charater how does it matter. meapas
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Jun 09
Thanks for agreeing!
leiann_561
@leiann_561 (332)
• Philippines
9 Jun 09
yeah. a lot of times. it's actually how my some of my friends (the ones i had a fight with) take revenge on me. i am really a talkative person, so i tell them a lot of stuff, and when things turn bad they use those things to hurt me. i think the best way to address this is by confrontation, asking them what the hell do they want.
meapas
@meapas (2436)
• India
9 Jun 09
Being talkative is not that bad, but if you are talking about somebody talk only of good qualities of that person and be careful to whom you are speaking. Most of our friends have masked personality, be vary of such people and keep avoidable distance. Regards. meapas.