what do u think i shall so?

United States
November 12, 2006 6:46am CST
ok my ex husband has put my daughter in sudlersville elementry school but the thing is he lives in delaware...how can a man put a child in a md school that lives in del...he also cant even speak or read english, he has the one girl he works with to help her.....what shall i do? pls explain and help
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@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
26 Nov 06
Does that matters ? prehaps he wants her to learn english prehaps ??? ...English is very important
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• United States
26 Nov 06
yes school does matter...u need to put ur child in the right school and she does speak english and very good english....thanks for ur response
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
im not sure on that, i think that you need to look into it.
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• United States
26 Nov 06
thanks for ur response
@Sailor (1160)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Before you do anything, especially because I don't know the complete situation nor the distance of the schools in question, find out if he has sent her to a school that he thinks is better for your daughter. This happens all the time in L.A. California. It isn't always easy to have a good school, and it is better to build on a good foundation at the young age. As far as the language barrier, you knew that getting into the relationship, and if u are no longer together I am quite sure you knew in order to be a good parent he was going to find assistance. I know there are two sides of a story, so I'm just writting off what you wrote.
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@Sailor (1160)
• United States
27 Nov 06
well there is a reason for everything. Bottom line ask what your daughter thinks. At any rate I don't believe in making anyone line. I even teach my son like this. ying is a sin. Only do it when you really need to get out of a situation. Not my business, but is it even close to where he works or the woman who is helping him so she has close support when needed?
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• United States
27 Nov 06
well she hates it and i tell her to tell the truth....she also told me she hates her dad but i told her thats not good....thanks again for ur response
• United States
26 Nov 06
hes only put her in the school cuz its convenient for him and he dont want to go out of his way for noone not even her and the school he put her in for one is farther away from his house in the morning and second is out of state....thanks for ur response
• United States
26 Nov 06
hey there,,you have a great problem on your hands,,I would think that your gonna need a lawyer to help you get threw this..or maybe going to DHS..)dept of human services) but i would talk to a lawyer first ..once your in the computer with DHS your always there..other than that..i dont know anything else to help you out,..,good luck and take care!!
• United States
26 Nov 06
i have tryed dhs but they dont seem to help out at all ill have to get a lawyer and get him/her to help me out....thanks for ur response
@Bunny2 (2102)
• Australia
26 Nov 06
I don't know but it seems you have some good advice here. I hope the situation clears p for you and your daughter.
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• United States
26 Nov 06
thanks so much....thanks for ur response